What Are Your Thoughts On Fighting? Should We Be Teaching Our Children It’s Ok To Get Physical Sometime?

Posted in Complete Devastation To The Nation


So y’all, I’m a little conflicted this morning. Social media has become inundated with viral videos of folks fighting left & right. Everyone from little kids, to old ladies are now WWE stars on FaceBook. More times than not, I view the videos and think to myself, why are these people out here fighting like savages. Other times, I find myself rather entertained by the fights and routing for the person that is kicking ass, especially in a bullying situation. What does this say about me? Rarely do I find contradictions in my own thinking. On one hand, I find it disgusting when people are fighting like dogs in the middle of the street, and on the other hand, I’m cheering when a bully is getting their ass handed to them. I find that most people kind of feel the way I do.

So what do we teach our children about fighting? I was taught that if someone hits you, you hit them back. However, this type of mentality really doesn’t do you any good as an adult. As a child the consequences are petty in the grand scheme of things. However, as an adult, you could end up in jail, lose your job, or end up seriously hurt.

I know people who were taught that you hit someone before they have the chance to hit you. In essence, you’d be popping off first. Again as a child perhaps, but as an adult, your ass is definitely going to jail.

Here’s an example of one of those fights that I actually enjoyed


With so many exceptions to the rule and what if scenarios? What concretely if anything we can teach our children about fighting?


Move Over #RHOA, Todd Tucker & Carlos King Wrap Filming Hollywood Hasbeens

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Mama Joyce wanted Todd’s a** to go get a job, and he did. Now its time for us to see if it amounts to anything. I told y’all way back when that Todd was working on the actors version of R&B Divas (Todd Got A Job! Mama Joyce Should Be Proud! New Show ‘Hollywood Divas’ On TvOne). Well they’ve finished filming the show and now it should just be a matter of months before we see the fruits of Todd & Carlos’s labor. The show features Elise Neal (The Hughleys), Golden Brooks (Girlfriends), Paula Jai Parker (Hustle and Flow), Countess Vaughn (The Parkers) and Lisa Wu (Real Housewives of Atlanta). All tea all shade, I really am not checking for Golden Brooks or her new face.

Anyway… Congrats To Todd & Carlos.


Tru Blood: Where The Hell Is Tara, And Why Can’t Sookie Keep Her Panties On?

Posted in Movies



The wait is finally over. For those of us True Blood fans out there, last night’s premiere was the fix we needed. Well,  at least I thought it would be. In all honesty, I think last night’s season premiere was a little lackluster. Is it more, or did it end rather abruptly?

One thing I was not here for was the sudden disappearance of Tara within the first 3 minutes of the show. Understanding that the salary from this show is too good for Rutina Wesly (Tara), I know she didn’t just let them write her totally out of the show. I don’t think Tara is dead. If she is dead perse’, I am sure that she will still be a part of the show in the form of a spirit, or flashback memories, but I honestly don’t think she is dead.

I’ll tell you another thing that I am not here for, Sookie and them lil ole titties that she is so glad to pull out every opportunity she gets. Y’all talk about Olive Pope being a whore. Sookie has slept with everybody on the damn show minus Lafayette, and her brother Jason. Quiet as its kept, I don’t see what’s fascinating with that Tinker Bell puss… I’m just saying.

Let’s hope things get better with coming episodes…

Kenya, Cynthia, Marlo Spotted TOGETHER At Movie Premiere. Wonder What Nene’s Thinking?

Posted in reality tv, RHOA

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Listen, this picture just SCREAMS messy. It very well could be that all three ladies just so happened to be at the same place at the same time, and decided to take a picture, but i don’t know Nessa Girl. All three ladies were attended the The Think Like A Man Too movie premiere in New York. I do know Cynthia & Marlo personally. I’m going to go out on a limb and say they all just happened to be there. I seriously don’t think that all three of them rode there together perse’. However, this picture does look a lil suspect. I’m pretty sure in coming moments we can expect Nene Leakes to post some sort of subliminal Tweet.

I’ll say this, Marlo Hampton knew exactly what she was doing when she posted this picture. I’ll leave it at at that.

What do y’all think?

Convicted Felon’s Mug Shot Drives Ladies WILD – Had To Make Him An Honorary YES GAWD

Posted in The Yes Gawd kidz



Ewwwwwww how much is your bond daddy! Nessa girl, I’m standing in front of an oscillating fan right now trying to kool off hunty! This thang right here is fine. He is so fine, that I am about to dump my neighbor’s husband.

Meet Jeremy Meeks. He’s a 30-year-old convicted felon who was arrested Wednesday on felony weapons charges during a sweep in the Weston Ranch area of Stockton, according to Stockton police. ~ News 10 ABC

I don’t care what these people say. They are lying on my man. He did no such thing. He was home with me. Yes hunty!! This man is so damn fine I will lie under oath for him, OKAY!

He’s also arguably the most popular convict ever to grace the Stockton Police Department Facebook page.

Meeks’ mug shot generated more than 2,400 comments between Wednesday night and Thursday morning, many from women claiming to admire his good looks.

“Hottttttt,” Melissa Stiles wrote.

“Omg come to mama,” Nicole Seba Lorena Elena commented

“Holy hell i would arrest him too..hottest bad boy I’ve seen,” Ellie Abbey wrote.

“He can kidnap me anyday… Hold me against my will lol,” Jessica Gutierrez commented.

“Why is he breaking the law when he should be making millions modeling! Wowzas,” Tanya H. Thomas noted.

One user has set up a Facebook fan page for Meeks, who is being held in the San Joaquin County Jail on $900,000 bail. Of course, not everyone is amused by his admirers.

“$900,000 in bail and 6 felonies. You ladies are desperate,” Amber Gomes wrote. ~ News 10 ABC

Real talk, how much do you have on his bail?

Bout Damn Time – NEW MUSIC – Monifah, ‘The Other Side’. Yassssssssss Bishhhhhhh

Posted in music, R&B Divas, reality tv


There is a GAWD! After 3 seasons of tootsie rollin’ around my got damn tv screen talmbout she is a singer, Monifah has FINALLY given “The People” some new music.

After all these years of being off the scene, is Mo’s new song worth anything? You bet your bottom dollar it is bish!! I definitely think Monifah is going to chart pretty well with this one. The song has a nice summery feel with hell of crossover appeal. Come through The Purple Princess. All jokes aside, I’m glad Monifah took her time and released the “right” track as opposed to putting out some bullsh!t and embarrassing herself. Good thing to know that my home girl understands what second chances at a music career are all about.

Check it out and let me know what you think.

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