DEAR DINEVA: He’s The Only Man To Ever Touch My Kitty, But I Think I’m Missing Out On Something. Am I?

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Hi Ms. Dineva! I want to start by saying how hilarious you are! Thank you for bringing that enjoyment to the world.

On a different note, I’m in need of some advice. I have been in a relationship with a man that I absolutely, positively love for just about 2 years now. I’ve known him for years, and when I say YEARS I’m talking about 10+ years. He has serious trust issues, not because of any past issues with me, but rather issues he had from a previous relationship, which I won’t get into the details of. Anyways, the lack of trust really annoys the shit out of me and quite honestly can get infuriating. Im a student at the mecca, Howard University and I feel like im missing out on a lot of the excitement and enjoyment of my college years because of this relationship. I forgot to mention, he lives in NY, while I’m down in DC making this what seems like a VERYYY long distance relationship. I love him very much and know in my heart this is the man I want to be with for the rest of my life, but I dont feel like I’m making the most of my youthful years. He is the only man I’ve ever been with and quite frankly the only man I want to be with on a serious level, but I can’t even miss a phone call without an argument being ignited or a lengthy explanation needed. I miss the aspect of even just flirting with another man or receiving just the slightest amount of male attention without feeling like I’ve completely betrayed his trust. I guess I kind of want to have my cake and eat it too? I want to be with him, but sometimes feel like I need a breather, but I know “breaks” can be detrimental for some people. How should I handle this?  Should I stick it out and stay or take a break and enjoy my college years?

Thanks in advance!

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Chris Brown Out Of Rehab. Ex-manager Clears His a$$ via Twitter.

Posted in Complete Devastation To The Nation, music


 Written by: Brian Rayfield

It’s been a while since we’ve seen or heard from Chris Brown and his late stunts and antics. As some of us know, Mama was getting her life together, completing a 90-day stint in rehab for his anger management issues and only gawd knows what else. I’ll let yall filter that on your own. No tea, no shade, Get Yo Life in Order Chris!! Leave the stunts and shows for Justin Bieber chile.

In all honesty, I just hope we’re not speaking to soon with all these encouraging and uplifting words. Earlier this week, Chris took to Twitter to take his ex-manager, Tina Davis, to task for allegedly leaking music from his upcoming studio album “X”.

Chris Tweeted:

chris tweet

Of course the Tweet was later deleted and replaced with:

-        Snakes in the grass….Just stay positive.

Well good gawd, maybe the rehab did him justice yall, but then again, it’s still too early to tell. We never know with this one. Continue reading

Marlo Reads NeNe In Her Latest Blog.”Beware Of People Throwing Shade While Wearing Bad Toupees!”

Posted in reality tv, RHOA


Well folks, I knew it was coming. I guess Marlo had to find a stunted credit card with enough room on it to pay a queen to read Nene for filth. No tea no shade, she must have found one with bout five-thousand on it, because she has gotten Nene all the way TOGETHER. Bae-Bae I am blogging from down to da bar today, and when i tell you I fell out. Chile i am dead to da bar stool. Catch these T’s

Divas and Divos, I’m doing my best to be the one to take the high road, but these last few weeks have been filled with lots of shade and haterade from people promoting products from Donald Trump’s hair emporium!

Say what you will about me, but I’m always going to be real. I’m always going to be that Woman who will come straight from the heart with no chaser and no BS. I’ve never claimed to be perfect, flawless or without regrets. Who is? Definitely not the fake bleached blond with the bold ambitions! She talks about my past incarcerations, her past includes pole sliding, lap dancing, lights, cameras and action! Which one of us is worse? Both of us have come a long way since then haven’t we? Good thing we took advantage of “opportunities.” Continue reading

NEW VIDEO: Beyonce ‘Partition’ – Get Yo LIFE!!!

Posted in New Music


All the QUEENS and Beyonce Fans get ready to go crazy! Just moments ago Beyonce dropped the ‘Partition’ video. GET YO LIFE!!! Continue reading

Basketball Wives L.A. Star Sundy Carter’s Daughter Sucking Sausage Down To Da Twitter (pic)

Posted in Basketball Wives


Y’all can tell its a slow news day. Anyway, last night Black Twitter was lighting up with all kinds of jokes about Sundy and how she exposed her daughter for sucking d!ck down to da Twitter. The back story goes, Sundy’s daughter Deja ran away from home to kick it with some no good a$$ lil boy. Somehow or another, Deja ended up talking reckless about her mother on Twitter. Sundy snapped back by going off on her daughter on Twitter and posting a picture of her speaking into the microphone. After realizing how triffling she was for slut shaming her own daughter, Sundy pulled the proverbial “my account was hacked move.” The real shade  doesn’t go to Sundy, or her daughter Deja. The real shade goes to this boy with this little ole d!ck. Chile cheese. Catch these T’s. Continue reading

Robin Thicke and Paula Patton Have Separated, For Anyone Who Cares…

Posted in Complete Devastation To The Nation


Chile I guess… I don’t even half have anything to say about this. I just posted it so those of you out there who care would know.

“We will always love each other and be best friends, however, we have mutually decided to separate at this time,” the couple tell PEOPLE on Monday in an exclusive statement.

The pair, who first met when Thicke was 14, have been married since 2005 and welcomed son Julian Fuego in April 2010.

The singer, 36, long had been very expressive about his marriage to the actress, 38, saying last fall, “We’re pretty sure we’ve loved each other for a few lives.” ~ People