Texas Pastor Says No Women Wearing Weave Allowed In His Church

Posted on Aug 19 2013 - 7:08pm by Funky Dineva


I guess we our in the midst of a new version of the bible being written. Last I checked, the good book said come as you are. Well, Pastot A.J. Aimir decided he would add one caveat. “Come as you are, minus your 26 inch Peruvian Pakistani virgin Remy. Female parishioners and women alike have been in an uproar. Many sisters taking his position on hair weaves deeply personal and quite frankly feel personally attacked. Pastor Aamir feels women wearing weaves presents a false image of themselves and are associated with women who have low self-esteem. In part I agree and i will explain in just a moment.

“Our black women are getting weaves trying to be something and someone they are not. Be real with yourself is all I’m saying” said Pastor Aamir.

Pastor Aamir admits he was raised in a strict household. His mother and father are members of the Islamic faith. At 39 years old, he leads a congregation whose average age is 22.

“Long hair don’t care. What kind of mess is that? I don’t want my members so focused on what’s on their heads and not IN their heads” he told AmericaPreachers.com.

“I lead a church where our members are struggling financially. I mean really struggling. “Yet, a 26 year old mother in my church has a $300 weave on her head. NO. I will not be quiet about this.”

I do feel like Pastor Amir’s points may have a small bit of validity, but his approach was all wrong. Pastor Aamir acknowledges he cannot legally prohibit women from wearing weaves in church, but he still highly disapproves it. Want to know what I really think about hair weaves? Catch these T’s


Hear me and hear me good. I have no problem what-so-ever with women wearing hair weaves. However, I do take slight exception with women rocking weaves in colors, styles, lengths, and textures that their hair does not grow. My issue is not the hair weave, my issue is the fact that some women prefer the looks of women from other cultures over there own. Here it is some women are walking down the street rocking 30 inch weaves dyed blonde, crinkled, and teased to the gawds, knowing damn well their hair grows in a manner closely related to that of Michelle Obama or Oprah Winfrey. Both of which have undeniable beautiful hair. I’m sure Michelle and Oprah both probably get a few tracks sewed in from time to time to add volume and fulness, yet, their look is not transformed into something that they totally are not.

To each its own.  I recognize that my view on weaves is not the gospel and by no means the end all be all on what women should do. However, I will say that i totally dislike women who will not wear their own hair from time to time and who feel inferior and less beautiful unless they have bundles and bundles of long flowing pakistani p$$y hair sewn in their heads. THIS right here is indicative of deep rooted self esteem issues and I just don’t like overly self conscious people with low self esteem around me.


Let me ask this question, when did all this full head of weave stuff come about? What happen to the days where it was a dis if someone said you were wearing a weave. Remember the scene from Poetic Justice where the woman says “look at her, sitting over there in that cheap dress. Plastic payless shoes, ain’t even human hair, the bitch got yack hair in her head, fake mess…”. Better yet, remember the colt classic Black film House Party? During and around that era, black women in particular didn’t really rock weaves. They bumped and curled their natural hair and that was all too it. If we fast forward to the days of Martin and Living Single, Pam and Regine were often clowned and made fun of at the thought of their hair being laced with weave. So when did all this full head of weave business come about?

I know some smart ass is going to try to go in on me in the comments section and call me a hypocrite because I rock wigs and all other sorts of fake hairpieces. Note, “Funky Dineva” is not a REAL person. She is a character that I play that imitates those around us. Even with that, Funky Dineva is a reflection of our current societal environment.

What is your thoughts on Pastor Amir’s comments? What are your thoughts on weaves?

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  1. Domonique Williams July 7, 2016 at 4:28 pm - Reply

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    I need for you celebs to all come together, squash all beefs and ask for all black ppl to stop killing each other and unite! The time is now! I need for good cops to start taking a stand. Do your part! You took an oath!

  2. Sal Rodriguez July 7, 2016 at 2:46 pm - Reply

    Renee Uzong sorry queen, no entry allowed!

  3. Tashyra Stjeward July 7, 2016 at 9:26 am - Reply

    Sheldonovic Primata

  4. Karen Johnson July 7, 2016 at 8:33 am - Reply

    Jamie Graham

  5. Rochelle Chelle Evans July 7, 2016 at 7:56 am - Reply

    Well I guess it will be all men up in there

  6. Linda Dulin July 7, 2016 at 5:35 am - Reply

    Well that church is going to be empty

  7. Danielle Johnson July 7, 2016 at 3:42 am - Reply

    Chan Chavers

  8. Yvette Winfrey July 7, 2016 at 3:13 am - Reply


  9. Eboni Mikki Conley July 7, 2016 at 3:04 am - Reply

    What happened to come as you are… It takes work to cut a sew in out

  10. Erika Roscoe July 7, 2016 at 3:00 am - Reply

    What happened to come as you are?

  11. Shakin Myass Pinkney July 7, 2016 at 1:52 am - Reply

    Ok and why

  12. Echelon Fittest July 7, 2016 at 1:41 am - Reply

    i agree get the devil hair out of here!!

  13. Erica Davis July 7, 2016 at 1:26 am - Reply

    Lol i cant even be mad. He want people to be more close to god then worrying bout them bundles. People dont wanna tithe but got bread for that hair tho. I feel u

  14. Deborah Mays July 7, 2016 at 12:28 am - Reply

    Every pew might be empty but seriously who is he to say some tomfoolery like that. #ignorantneanderthal

  15. Lesette Cookie Gray July 7, 2016 at 12:17 am - Reply

    When he sees them empty pews and that skimpy collection plate, he’ll change his mind!!

  16. Nisha Davis July 7, 2016 at 12:01 am - Reply

    Good thang God is everywhere!

  17. Kristin Nicole July 6, 2016 at 11:41 pm - Reply

    This includes all race right???

  18. Samantha Jane Thomas July 6, 2016 at 10:41 pm - Reply

    What happen to come as you are? Or are we just gonna skip that part of the scripture?

  19. Doris Johnson July 6, 2016 at 10:33 pm - Reply

    Well he ain’t gone have no congregation

  20. LaTrice Young July 6, 2016 at 10:23 pm - Reply

    No a real man of God,,, JESUS is,concerned about your heart not ur hair,,, beware

  21. Tsahia Burton July 6, 2016 at 10:16 pm - Reply

    Church is “men only” now?

  22. Kim Melancon July 6, 2016 at 10:13 pm - Reply

    He got some nerve … I know his mammy got a wig somewhere!!! Hypocrites!!

  23. Pachion Williams July 6, 2016 at 9:20 pm - Reply


  24. Pachion Williams July 6, 2016 at 9:20 pm - Reply

    I’m guessing that church gonna be empty soon Bcs I will not go…. I wear weaves n braids even so often …… he wants to control the woman in the church. …. so what is a 26 year old mother warring a 300 dollar weave … she may work hard for her money. … stupid crap pastor

  25. Keicia Shanta July 6, 2016 at 9:13 pm - Reply

    I’m weak

  26. Nancy Shiro Kamau July 6, 2016 at 8:06 pm - Reply

    Gosh, too many other churches pop up open everyday.

  27. Erica Shanelle Spicer July 6, 2016 at 7:59 pm - Reply

    With a “rule” like that why would you wanna go in the first place ?

  28. Maya Cameron July 6, 2016 at 7:58 pm - Reply

    Y’all will follow these dumbass preachers to the grave. Meanwhile they’re using your tithe money to pay their bills

  29. Cheree Davian July 6, 2016 at 7:56 pm - Reply

    What about idiot pastors??

  30. Markeysha Evans July 6, 2016 at 7:33 pm - Reply

    Pews and collection plate will be empty this Sunday and tonight cause its Bible study Wednesday LOL

  31. Joseph Porter July 6, 2016 at 7:19 pm - Reply

    That was my church that I grew up in. They didn’t allow women to preach, teach, wear weave, some hated wigs, wear make up… Some hated ear rings. Very cult like. I’m glad my gay ass escaped!

  32. Quisha Pratt July 6, 2016 at 7:03 pm - Reply

  33. Nyeta Videl July 6, 2016 at 6:59 pm - Reply

    That’s a small church, huh?

  34. Lovely Estralita Givan July 6, 2016 at 6:49 pm - Reply

    That’s going to be one empty ass church. Who is he to say how woman can wear THEIR NOW, THEIR HAIR?

  35. Jimmy Lampkin July 6, 2016 at 6:13 pm - Reply

    You haven’t read your bible sweetie….there is no verse, chapter or scripture that says “Come as you are” dear one.

  36. Sharon Jones July 6, 2016 at 6:07 pm - Reply

    That’s ridiculous and superficial. God is concerned with what is inside.

  37. Sheila Akins July 6, 2016 at 5:51 pm - Reply

    Jency Pullum Oh my

  38. Rechelle Cook July 6, 2016 at 5:36 pm - Reply

    Looks like the church will be empty !!!

  39. Joce Lynzz July 6, 2016 at 5:26 pm - Reply

    Oh heck no lol

  40. Wayne Da Barber Lockhart July 6, 2016 at 5:26 pm - Reply

    Funky Dineva

  41. Jackie Truly Blessed Cummings July 6, 2016 at 5:12 pm - Reply

    Chile cheese I guess I can’t go. #LOVEMYWEAVE

  42. Sheresugar Love July 6, 2016 at 5:07 pm - Reply

    He’s going to have a EMPTY ass church

    • Sheresugar Love July 6, 2016 at 5:08 pm - Reply

      What about the men? They wear more weave than women.

  43. Meta Anna Campbell July 6, 2016 at 5:02 pm - Reply

    Maybe people should be more worried and vocal about serious issues instead of trying to control what Black women do with their own heads. I’m natural 24/7, have never wore weaves; wigs nor extensions but I refuse to throw my Sisters who do under the bus to make myself feel all superior. Black female bashing needs to be done away with , there are much more things to focus on in our communities.

  44. Shaniqua Perry-Moton July 6, 2016 at 5:01 pm - Reply

    Church house empty than a bitch!!

  45. La Shunrick Huynh July 6, 2016 at 4:59 pm - Reply

    Lol lol. Ignorance!

  46. Pebblestina Sanders July 6, 2016 at 4:56 pm - Reply

    I hear what he is saying but that’s none of his business his business is running his house hold that way if he and his wife agree his duty as a pastor is to teach the word then everything else will fall into place in that person life get out them people bank account and what you think they should look like .

  47. Stari Abby Young July 6, 2016 at 4:43 pm - Reply

    He’s a dumb ass

  48. Iman Amari July 6, 2016 at 4:42 pm - Reply

    Fuck yo church!!!!!!!! *Hair flip*

  49. Dee Chatman Itsmylife July 6, 2016 at 4:38 pm - Reply

    What happened to come as you are

    • Ya MyFam July 6, 2016 at 8:31 pm - Reply

      Come (naturally) as one is

  50. Dee Chatman Itsmylife July 6, 2016 at 4:37 pm - Reply

    He want a church full of men SMH and half of them can’t come they wear wig pieces also

  51. D'neen Love July 6, 2016 at 4:33 pm - Reply

    That’s just his way of only wanting men in the building…it’s OK pastor, keep it real & just come out the closet boo…there’s no need to attack the weave, just open that closet door lol

  52. Tiffany Marie Itsjustme July 6, 2016 at 4:33 pm - Reply

    Can’t even read the full article
    ,the site keeps sending me ads

  53. Sherita White-Hines July 6, 2016 at 4:22 pm - Reply

    Another way for a man to control a woman. Fuck you and your church! Probably mad because that money wasn’t put in the collection baskets!

  54. Agiitha Boss July 6, 2016 at 4:22 pm - Reply

    What a colossal idiot…

  55. Brooklyn Woods July 6, 2016 at 4:17 pm - Reply

    Well Dineva that’s cause these girls edges done been ate up. But I do understand you live on section 8 yet have $300 dollar hair smh priorities screwed all up.

  56. Maya Sativa Monroe July 6, 2016 at 4:16 pm - Reply

    well…..since the bible does say that synthetic fiber is a sin and that vanity is a sin..and so is lying, and weave is a lie lol maybe you silly christian women should worry more about your faith and less about looking like you scalped a horse 🙂

    • Marquita Antionette July 6, 2016 at 4:23 pm - Reply

      I saw your profile. I could be very petty but I’m just gonna ☕

    • Maya Sativa Monroe July 6, 2016 at 4:24 pm - Reply

      lol not looking like that you can’t

    • Mallery Hart July 6, 2016 at 4:31 pm - Reply

      So is lust and fornication. …… not all weave is synthetic.

    • Maya Sativa Monroe July 6, 2016 at 4:35 pm - Reply

      but at the same time it’s not natural. I don’t care one way or the other I just find it hilarious that with all the bs that spews from these supposed “men of god” what you “ladies” are worried about is weave lmao

    • Lexi Dailey July 6, 2016 at 4:35 pm - Reply

      That was under the mosaic law which was abolished once Christ gave His ultimate sacrifice. Which is why we as women aren’t untouchable during our period & we can wear polyester and we can eat shrimp If we want to Maybe you should know your Bible too.

    • Maya Sativa Monroe July 6, 2016 at 4:36 pm - Reply

      I’ll pass hun…I buy toilet paper at the store. I do not need the bible

    • Sherri Anderson July 6, 2016 at 4:39 pm - Reply

      Boom…..Maya just dropped the mic

    • Maya Sativa Monroe July 6, 2016 at 4:41 pm - Reply

      sure did….but by all means tell me what “jesus” has done for black people….before you had jesus you had civilizations unrivaled by anything modern. what do you have now lol….go ahead…I’ll wait

    • Des Smith July 6, 2016 at 4:42 pm - Reply

      Maya Sativa Monroe haha! You mad or nah?

    • Sherri Anderson July 6, 2016 at 4:43 pm - Reply

      But. . On the same hand, Maya Sativa Monroe,not all of us wear weave, and the problem is a supposed “man of god” proclaiming something so petty. One of the many reasons I don’t mess with religion

    • Maya Sativa Monroe July 6, 2016 at 4:43 pm - Reply

      not mad Des Smith but very perplexed by the priorities of african american women

    • Maya Sativa Monroe July 6, 2016 at 4:45 pm - Reply

      I love natural hair Sherri Anderson…so beautiful. dreds, braids, afros, its all cute…but this stringy, unwashed, shedding like a sheepdog weave just doesn’t get it

    • Mallery Hart July 6, 2016 at 4:45 pm - Reply

      So because women wear unnatural fibers they should be banned from church? Most clothes and shoes aren’t made from natural fibers. Also this “preacher” is worried more about finances than souls being saved. Let them not have pastor/ wife anniversary see what happens. No quotation marks needed around “ladies” I am a full grown natural women the way God made me. Also all they spew, thats why the bible says study to show yourself approved. Just because the supposed “men of god” you speak of spew it doesnt me we agree with it.

    • Maya Sativa Monroe July 6, 2016 at 4:47 pm - Reply

      no lol I DO NOT CARE IF YOU WEAR WEAVE! there are bigger issues you should have with religion than weave

    • Mallery Hart July 6, 2016 at 4:56 pm - Reply

      Maya Sativa Monroe thats what I said, but since this post amd your comment was about weave I was comminting on your comment. Im sure there are more things going.on on his church than weave wearing lol!

    • Marquita Antionette July 6, 2016 at 5:04 pm - Reply

      Yes looking like this I could sweetie, like I said I saw your profile hun. But I digress…

    • Maya Sativa Monroe July 6, 2016 at 5:07 pm - Reply

    • Tessa Spigner Thomas July 6, 2016 at 5:25 pm - Reply

      Y’all do know white women wear weave too….

    • Maya Sativa Monroe July 6, 2016 at 5:27 pm - Reply

      yes they do lol

    • Shundra Jones July 6, 2016 at 5:49 pm - Reply

      Lmao.. A lot of white people hair is stringy, unwashed, and shed’s more than a weave… Smh..

    • Maya Sativa Monroe July 6, 2016 at 6:07 pm - Reply

      how did this become about white people/black people lol y’all can’t even deal with the real issue here…a PASTOR that is supported entirely by his congregation feels that he has the right ORDAINED BY GOD to decide what you can and cannot do but keep on bringing up white folks…lol no wonder the african american community never seems to do much but go in circles

    • Shundra Jones July 6, 2016 at 7:07 pm - Reply

      Maya Sativa Monroe are u a drag Queen.. Lmao.. Hot ass mess

    • Marlene Martin July 6, 2016 at 7:09 pm - Reply

      Josh /Maya Sativa Monroe ; Cut it out. !!!

    • Maya Sativa Monroe July 6, 2016 at 7:27 pm - Reply

      as soon as I get a straight answer lol so far not one logical response

    • Andrea Jones July 6, 2016 at 8:41 pm - Reply

      Maya Sativa Monroe did you give her the slow clap?? #savage

  57. Shelita Jones July 6, 2016 at 4:16 pm - Reply

    Well I guess his church is gonna be empty

  58. Lezly Anise July 6, 2016 at 4:15 pm - Reply

    Majority of elderly ladies wear wigs is that included

  59. Latrisha Hashmi July 6, 2016 at 4:13 pm - Reply

    No more members then

  60. Ashley Miles July 6, 2016 at 4:12 pm - Reply

    He has a point about the financial aspect, but the solution isn’t to ban people for their hairstyle. Teach the young women

  61. MrsKecia Garrison July 6, 2016 at 4:11 pm - Reply

    Well I guess the whole front pew, the ushers,1/2 the choir,& first lady be gone then along with Sister Rutha Mae & Geraldine with their sunday best wigs 😀 lol

  62. Emily Natasha Thompson July 6, 2016 at 4:11 pm - Reply

    Well men and women will not be there

  63. Nakia Elliott July 6, 2016 at 4:11 pm - Reply

    Are men allowed to wear toupees?

    • MrsKecia Garrison July 6, 2016 at 4:26 pm - Reply

      thats a good question lol

    • Nakia Elliott July 6, 2016 at 4:34 pm - Reply

      Cuz I know a lot of em got bald spots to cover. Is the Hair Club for Men cool? Surgical hair transplants? I have questions!

  64. Brittany Carr July 6, 2016 at 4:11 pm - Reply

    I think its odd that a pastor is not only recognizing but pricing the hair in his flock’s heads, he needs to worry more about preaching and less about inspecting the women imo

    As far as your thoughts, I think if you’re gonna rock a weave what’s the point of wearing something that looks like your own hair? I want women to value what they have naturally over whatever additions they choose but they shouldn’t feel like they have to stick to some strict rules or specific types of styles just so people won’t think they have self hate or something.. that seems like it would take a lot of the fun out of it. Fake hair can be fun in other ways besides trying to convince people its real LOL!

  65. Sinazo Stormy Mbizela July 6, 2016 at 4:09 pm - Reply

    Never saw that in the bible.

  66. Shi Hansley July 6, 2016 at 4:08 pm - Reply

    He needs to mind his business….If women want to beautify themselves it’s their choice!

  67. Sammi Katie Granpickiny Jo July 6, 2016 at 4:08 pm - Reply

    Naturals don’t tithe..lmao

  68. Billie Kennedy July 6, 2016 at 4:05 pm - Reply

    Worried about the wrong thing.

  69. Rob Gatling July 6, 2016 at 4:05 pm - Reply

    Unbeweaveable! #fixitJesus

  70. Melissa Diamond July 6, 2016 at 4:05 pm - Reply

    Well his church will be empty and only the elderly will be in attendance lol

    • La Shunrick Huynh July 6, 2016 at 5:00 pm - Reply

      You know granny and nem have a wig on under their Sunday hat

  71. Lester Cristic Mayers July 6, 2016 at 4:04 pm - Reply

    Jessica Justine

  72. Angela Bynum July 6, 2016 at 4:03 pm - Reply

    Well… There goes his congregation LOL

  73. Freeman Kim July 6, 2016 at 4:03 pm - Reply

    I bet his church empty
    Or full of bald head deacons

  74. Ashley MrsTucker July 6, 2016 at 4:03 pm - Reply

    What about the First Lady and her wig?? Is she still allowed

  75. Sheila Richardson July 6, 2016 at 4:03 pm - Reply

    Erica Chavez That’s gonna be one helluva empty church this Sunday

  76. Kendra Michelle July 6, 2016 at 4:03 pm - Reply

    Bye to your church then

  77. Nicole Nina George July 6, 2016 at 4:02 pm - Reply

    Oh lord

  78. Anonymous February 7, 2016 at 4:25 pm - Reply

    YES!!!!!!! SOMEBODY SHOUT “GLORRRRRYY!! No more tacky-tracky, unbeweavalbe hot mess–at least not in that church! Amen. I gonna play some worship music now!!!! #putemout

  79. Terry-Ann BossChick Thomas via Facebook February 7, 2016 at 12:15 pm - Reply

    If I was a member of his church, I wish he’d try me….who’s he to refuse his members for wearing a weave when Jesus never turned anyone away not even the prostitutes or unsavory characters who came before him, aren’t we supposed to be more like him….smdh false freakin prophet

  80. Angela Libra via Facebook February 7, 2016 at 7:33 am - Reply

    He taking it to far!!!

  81. Annette Williams via Facebook February 7, 2016 at 4:54 am - Reply

    Who he Hitler?

  82. Sheri Idaboh via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 11:48 pm - Reply

    dat = an empty church house lol

  83. Grace Nelson via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 9:23 pm - Reply

    He’s an ass

  84. Almeta Coleman-Birch via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 8:34 pm - Reply

    Can’t wear weave. No offering my brother. More for my weave. They better Stop being the husband of everybody. I would definitely testify how I’m gonna cuss his behind out in church. Fix me Jesus

  85. Calvina Parks via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 6:52 pm - Reply


  86. Sunshine Harvey via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 5:33 pm - Reply

    Tiffany Hughes?

  87. Monica Toote Chappell-Tarver via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 3:58 pm - Reply

    Well he will be going 2 his church by his self!

  88. Regina Morris-Green via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 1:33 pm - Reply

    Wear what you want on your head, its no one’s business but yours!

  89. JayJay Wants'justice via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 1:33 pm - Reply

    Is that the 11th commandment??? Gtfoh

  90. Dolores Arriaga via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 1:24 pm - Reply

    Does the pastor check women’s hair at the door? He should be glad people are going to church regardless of what they show up in. The pastor sounds like a cunt.

  91. Katurah Boyd via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 1:15 pm - Reply

    I hate when people overextend their feeble Azz opinions

  92. Katurah Boyd via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 1:11 pm - Reply

    Don’t worry ladies. The pastor will probably be arrested next year for molesting those same women who wear that 30 inch. “Pastor sneaky than a bitch” needs to stfu

  93. Uronda Nikki Pipkin via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 12:58 pm - Reply

    Any church thats worried about what u have on is not worth going to anyway cause clearly they are not worshipping the right person anyway

  94. Shanel Wilkes via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 12:51 pm - Reply

    He bet not complain when the collection plate starts getting light.

  95. Shannon Rabb via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 10:50 am - Reply

    Debi Neese Dale we know where NOT to look

  96. Jen Tha Pen via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 10:30 am - Reply

    It shouldn’t matter if someone chooses to wear a wig, weave, or their natural hair. The focus should be on bringing people to Christ. #jesustakethewheel

  97. Boota's Mumma via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 10:28 am - Reply

    In Texas? (good luck with that)

  98. Anonymous February 6, 2016 at 10:24 am - Reply

    The Bible does NOT say come as you. There are passages that say God offers deliverance to whoever calls upon his name Isaiah 1:18. This means if you are not living in righteous way you can come call on the Lord and change your ways. Weaves represent adornment and goes against the other passages about a woman’s beauty should come from with in not outwardly. In biblical times it was discraceful for a woman to show her hair in public muchless strap on extra length and color. The risk of stoning would be high back then. This come as you are stuff is nothing more than a attempt to boost attendance at church for the right or wrong reasons. Yes you want to save those who have strayed. However, it is difficult for me to see that it is not because more attendance means more tithes.

  99. Shayla Greene via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 10:00 am - Reply

    Parrish Wilkins is this your church?

  100. Theresa Tessie Dobey via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 9:49 am - Reply

    Going to be a empty ass church

  101. Arotas Drof via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 9:47 am - Reply

    Church is the people, not a building. With no people, how can there be church?

  102. Rhea Altamura via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 9:31 am - Reply

    There’s a bigger conversation that can be had WITH WOMEN AND MEN re financial empowerment and money management. But I do not agree with targeting just the women in the congregation. Beyond that, we should stop judging people. Also, we need to dismiss the idea that the church is just for holy, perfect, faultless people, who need to look a certain way to even get in the door.

  103. Gina Patterson via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 9:25 am - Reply

    Well what about Sister Wilma Johnson and her plethora of wigs? Pastor won’t say a doggone thing to her.

  104. Jackson Ash via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 8:19 am - Reply

    Jametrius Lyons Bawana Lyons

  105. Sheba Coates via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 7:52 am - Reply

    These days you can’t take the church serious!!!

  106. Sheba Coates via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 7:51 am - Reply

    Men these days act like females why are you worried about what a girl do with her hair fr you pastor!!

  107. Haywood Kim via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 7:16 am - Reply

    Guess no ones going to church…

  108. Jessica Hodges via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 6:56 am - Reply


  109. Shondra L. Hampton via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 6:05 am - Reply

    Bruh pastor can kiss my entire _________________.

  110. Ikey Alston via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 3:56 am - Reply

    Well I guess that means we know he ain’t working for the Lord cause we all know he don’t judge at all!!! No weave that’s so typical for him to say in a racist state!!! Smh

  111. Sharon Stevens via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 3:50 am - Reply
  112. Branden Houston via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 2:53 am - Reply

    sounds like what the church you go to will say next. oops. did i say that? Lol. Katia Williams

  113. Jasmine Allison via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 12:52 am - Reply

    Onekia L. Freeman

  114. Jerome Brown via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 12:44 am - Reply


  115. Kim Melancon via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 12:40 am - Reply

    Who is he the weave cop??? ?

  116. Cee Cee McClendon via Facebook February 6, 2016 at 12:01 am - Reply

    He is full if crap. He too concerned with how much women spend on weaves. He just want that $300 weave money in his collection plate. He need to have several seats. Weave have nothing to do with you serving God.

  117. Quita Evans via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 11:54 pm - Reply

    So I wonder if that includes wigs because we all know half the mother board and usher board be sporting wigs? Nonetheless, he shouldn’t turn them away because of their appearance, I guess he needs a sermon on Judge Ye Not!!!

  118. Towanna Taylor via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 11:36 pm - Reply

    He’s slick lol that’s so they won’t spend a lot of money on hair so it will be more for his pot $$$

  119. Elle Bryant Henry via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 11:34 pm - Reply

    Welp…I guess I won’t be a flock in his church. #ByePastorFelicia

  120. Ty Andrews via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 11:26 pm - Reply

    Hell, Wigs came before weaves. Is he gone shut down the amen corner grandmas too? #gosatdown

  121. Shaka Anum Semaj via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 11:11 pm - Reply

    Any Capricorns allowed?

  122. Noire Shanghai via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 11:05 pm - Reply

    I though we were to come as we are?
    If women cant wear their weave, then pastor you cant wear that expensive ass suit!!

  123. C Michelle Pickett via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 10:29 pm - Reply

    Well if he pays the mortgage on the church from his other job then he can say that. But if the members are paying the bills he can go somewhere else with that!!!

  124. Renee Williams via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 9:37 pm - Reply

    Smdh…didn’t the bible say come as you are

  125. Cherrelle Terrell via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 9:34 pm - Reply

    What type of bullshit is that?

  126. Lynette Tatman via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 9:20 pm - Reply
  127. Kayla Saulsbury via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 8:54 pm - Reply

    So who’s going to usher this Sunday???????

  128. Stephanie Gore via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 8:51 pm - Reply

    Lol at this mess

  129. Adilma Spalding via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 8:49 pm - Reply

    Ladies, if you wear a weave and you go to this Church, GIVE GOD SOME PRAISE!!! ?????????✌️

  130. Rebecca McDaniel via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 8:43 pm - Reply

    Lol he’s sick of us spending money on hair and not putting it in the plate to pay for his luxurious lifestyle.

  131. Eliza Beth via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 8:33 pm - Reply

    I’ll stop wearing weave when men stop lying… Cheating… Using extendz…lolol

  132. Tiffany Patrese Brisco via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 8:30 pm - Reply

    Its gonna be a lot of empty seats down to the church!

  133. Sara Grayson via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 8:29 pm - Reply

    I would be like…. fine….. let me take my church dollars over to this other offering plate!!! Bye Felicia!

  134. Kevin Wright via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 8:24 pm - Reply

    countdown to him getting busted being around women not his wife who have weaves and sex

  135. Amina Brooks via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 8:21 pm - Reply

    Nobody would show up

  136. Natasha Nicole via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 8:18 pm - Reply

    Did this fool say “Pakistani pussy hair” LMFAO ??????✌

  137. Natasha Nicole via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 8:13 pm - Reply

    Pastor so and so must’ve gotten an STD from a woman wearing weave now he’s mad and wants to take it out on all women. Poor Lil tink tink. ✌✌ people can do what they want to their head. That’s why I don’t go to nobody’s church. Straight foolishness!

  138. Rosalind Reynolds via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 8:10 pm - Reply

    Well there goes his congregation

  139. Marie Franklin-Swann via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 8:05 pm - Reply
  140. Dunkin Cope via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 8:03 pm - Reply

    His church gone be scarce as hell

  141. Ada Marie Carter via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 7:58 pm - Reply

    so who go to that church lol

  142. Nikki Brooks via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 7:56 pm - Reply

    In his church ? I thought the church was the house of the Lords?? soo, is his name on the deed or the name of the congregation ??? besides if weave is what his worried about than I know this is not the place for me to worship…ijs

  143. Kesha Rena'e Tucker via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 7:51 pm - Reply

    Well I know his wife do not attend

  144. Diandra Taylor via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 7:49 pm - Reply

    Suppose someone lost their hair because of health reasons?
    Seems like this pastor is focusing on the wrong thing.

  145. Cali Coe via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 7:47 pm - Reply

    Wth? This is ignorant and racist. If a black girl puts in blonde weave …….she is still black. She just wanted blonde fucking hair!!! I’ve dyed my hair blue, I wasn’t trying to be a smurf! I’m so sick of seeing crap like this. I’ve seen so many bad ass hair created in all colors for All raises. Weave isn’t just for black women. Talk about discrimination.

  146. Lynda Vialet via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 7:46 pm - Reply

    What happened to judge lest ye be judged???? Fake ass pastors smh

  147. Lynda Vialet via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 7:45 pm - Reply

    What he gonna do finger each woman’s head???? Sometimes you can’t even tell smh

  148. Terresa Robinson-Thompson via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 7:38 pm - Reply

    Felicia Elayne Bass Kay Trina Morris

  149. Anonymous February 5, 2016 at 7:37 pm - Reply

    A woman with weave must of turn him down

  150. Whitney Gaspard via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 7:36 pm - Reply

    well i know his membership is about to go way down, and boy these pastors are somehting else these days they are so concerned about everything else but don’t be concerned about preaching the word at all.

  151. Yolanda R Jones via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 7:31 pm - Reply

    Jonica Courtney

  152. Gabrielle Nelson via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 7:30 pm - Reply

    Church has become so distorted

  153. Katrina Gilmore via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 7:26 pm - Reply

    Red flag to leave that church. Pastor is focusing on the outside and not the soul.

  154. Regan Bell via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 7:26 pm - Reply

    Gon be some empty pews, and collection plates.

  155. Lisa Taylor via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 7:22 pm - Reply

    How would he know is he going to run his hand through everyone’s hair and what does that have to do with going to heaven… smdh

  156. Nicole Nikki Crowell via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 7:18 pm - Reply

    I don’t wear weave but i would just to spite him. Wigs and the black church go wayyyyy back. I remember my granny would get the holy ghost and her wig would be leaning. I go to integrated church and we don’t have these types of shenanigans. It’s things like this that turned me away from church. I’m so glad i found a good church. This is so messy

  157. Al L Marsh via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 7:09 pm - Reply

    You know that’s not right. What’s next? He’s making blanket judgments that are not his to make…

  158. Simone Henry-Utecht via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 7:04 pm - Reply

    I guess church was empty that week, huh?

  159. Nicole Thompson via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 7:03 pm - Reply

    Didn’t Jesus say come as you are???

  160. Brenda D. Hurt via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 6:53 pm - Reply
  161. Marissa Haire via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 6:46 pm - Reply

    Adam and Eve not Adam and Weave!!!! He needs to stay out of people’s hair.

  162. Chris Triggs via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 6:26 pm - Reply

    His wife prolly wear weave dumb ass

  163. Rhonda Mrsluvinlyfe Gallashaw via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 6:25 pm - Reply

    I agree I just transitioned to rocking my natural coils & the stares I receive & snickering from our ppl is funny to me… They don’t know there self worth.. I am so much more than my hair,why look like the Caucasians when there trying to be you nowadays..#allnatural

  164. Lauren Terrell via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 6:17 pm - Reply

    I wear weave because my natural hair gets so long and thick that it can become unmanageable, especially in the winter time. So instead of spending 3+ hours on my hair, I’ll wear a weave to make it easier. Unless that pastor is going to pay my WEEKLY salon tab, he shouldn’t be telling anyone what to do. Especially when we never know where the “building fund” money goes…..

  165. Nidia Dia Archer via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 6:13 pm - Reply

    I guess his church gone be empty lol

  166. Aryana Martinique Vonteese via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 6:05 pm - Reply

    Strapped for creativity and content huh, Dineva? This is like two years old.

  167. Melva Holmes-Sheard via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 5:58 pm - Reply

    No because he wants that weave money!!!

  168. Shawana Green via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 5:49 pm - Reply

    I know what Church that will always have a seat available on Sunday

  169. Vershelder Green via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 5:44 pm - Reply

    Back in “the day” we had to sleep on our stomachs with our hands under our chin to maintain those bumps and curls. It’s not about not liking our hair or selves. It’s about convenience and the fact that natural or not, real hair is work. For those of us who want it long but can’t comb it weave/wigs are a way to keep our real hair healthy and not have to damage it with those styles we love so much but can’t do and don’t have time for. If you notice when a sister removes her weave she is taking photos of her “long natural hair” proudly!!!

  170. Shuana SuperBaby Rogers via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 5:43 pm - Reply
  171. Irelee Colvin via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 5:39 pm - Reply

    If black people don’t stop following these false prophets…I don’t think God or Jesus cares about 12 inches of Remy. Tell him to come in shorts, t-shirt, with sandals and church socks. Idiot.

  172. Bridgett Williams via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 5:30 pm - Reply

    well he’ll have oh about 6 members bc most of the mother board wear wigs

  173. Adriane Joy Bishop Alexander via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 5:26 pm - Reply
  174. Tamora Snow-Howard via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 5:18 pm - Reply

    I agree!

  175. Marissa Reeves via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 5:06 pm - Reply

    He just wants their weave money as extra tithes.

  176. Tiffani Nicole via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 4:58 pm - Reply

    I actually kind of agree. I mean he can’t MAKE them stop wearing weave but his points are valid. I honestly don’t care what a woman or man had on their heads. But I do agree that in some instances a woman who only prefers hair that is not hers is dealing with some self esteem issues.

  177. Gene Witt via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 4:54 pm - Reply

    Maybe the horses behind the church in pastures are missing manes? Not sure why the drastic change in church policy, but you might wanna look at the horses. Just a thought.

  178. Audie Atta via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 4:54 pm - Reply

    Lmaoo snatch them bald

  179. Dana Mari via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 4:48 pm - Reply

    So what about cancer patients who may feel better wearing a wig or whatever to make them feel better? He needs to have several seats. These new aged pastors piss me off.

  180. Cerina Clemmons- Smith via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 4:43 pm - Reply


  181. Debbie Sapphyre Sanders via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 4:41 pm - Reply

    Ig’nit a**!

  182. Marie Boakye via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 4:34 pm - Reply

    Fuck him and don’t give him nomore ?…

  183. Sidney Pierce via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 4:26 pm - Reply

    well he gonna be a pastor with no flock corny ass

  184. Linda Dulin via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 4:25 pm - Reply

    That church is going to empty!!

  185. Chimére Campbell via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 4:25 pm - Reply


  186. Sterling Sénia via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 4:23 pm - Reply

    I think women should wear whatever makes them feel good. To each their own. If they like it and they man dig it I say rock it! I care more about a persons spirit and heart than I do their hair. We have to uplift our people and not judge them because of HAIRSTYLE!

  187. Miles Farris via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 4:17 pm - Reply

    He wouldn’t get my weave money! Ole tired ass is supposed to be preaching the word and not worrying about what the women look like. Greedy ass!

  188. Miles Farris via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 4:16 pm - Reply

    He is just mad that they spend their money on weave instead of putting it in his pockets!

  189. Janar Evans via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 4:08 pm - Reply

    Weave shaming.

  190. Tamara Hardnett via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 4:08 pm - Reply

    WELP, guess I wouldn’t be a member or visitor.

  191. Mikea Rheubottom via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 4:00 pm - Reply

    Welp, there goes the entire congregation! *rolls eyes*

  192. Christela Bocaille via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:46 pm - Reply

    Yvanie Jean

  193. Nyla Colõn via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:40 pm - Reply

    He said…..yall buying pakistani p$$y hair ????

  194. Mark Miles via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:39 pm - Reply

    That’s gone be one small, quiet, and bald headed congregation

  195. Adriane Joy Bishop Alexander via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:38 pm - Reply

    I can wear whatever I want…if you are trying to stop women from wearing weaves..what’s next make up..jewelery. .pants….Chile bye. .Black women have been wearing wigs weaves for years…we are beautiful weaves wigs or natural …run tell that

  196. Rosalind Merrit via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:37 pm - Reply

    What about wigs?

  197. Audreanne Ragin via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:32 pm - Reply

    Whitney Martin

  198. Tish Wallace via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:30 pm - Reply

    2013 tho?

  199. Lovely Givan via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:29 pm - Reply


  200. Tasha Taylor Franklin via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:28 pm - Reply

    Demarco Tootie Franklin

  201. Reggie Davenport via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:27 pm - Reply

    He will have a empty ass church lol

  202. Jose Guerra via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:27 pm - Reply

    Well dayum. Yvette Saint-Laurent #dadevilisalie

  203. Brittney Barnett via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:24 pm - Reply

    That’s a sparse congregation…

  204. Jay New via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:24 pm - Reply
  205. Toya Kinnard via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:23 pm - Reply

    Fuck him

  206. LaKeia Landry via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:23 pm - Reply

    Who’s gonna take him seriously?

  207. Matthew Pressley via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:21 pm - Reply

    Welp… he said women. Ima still wear my Indian Remy. #FockDHAT

  208. Peyton Hicks via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:20 pm - Reply

    Whose business is it who has a weave? How will he check? Bet he’ll still be passing that plate tho…

  209. Tania Hyppolite via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:20 pm - Reply

    I can’t beweave it

  210. Dee Brown via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:20 pm - Reply


  211. Kim Anderson via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:18 pm - Reply

    Who is this SOB!!!!

  212. Ko Mac via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:17 pm - Reply

    Chelle McKz tried it for $500 Alex bc ain’t no way

  213. Nancy Drew via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:16 pm - Reply

    Is he checking scalps as folks walk in?? ?

  214. LeeAnn Ming Lee Wallace via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:16 pm - Reply

    He better go on with hisself…worried about the wrong thing.smh

  215. King Mesh Hamilton via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:16 pm - Reply

    Wtw why is he trying Jesus come as you are

  216. Shaniqua Perry-Moton via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:12 pm - Reply

    His congregation will be a bunch of men then!!

  217. Sheresugar Love via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:12 pm - Reply

    That mother fucker will be empty then. lmao

  218. Crystal Bradford via Facebook February 5, 2016 at 3:10 pm - Reply
  219. CoCo Monroe July 18, 2014 at 9:55 am - Reply

    Why is what other people wear in their hair YOUR’S or anybody else’s business?! Worry about yourself! IF you dont like it, ok! Don’t wear it! Yall spend too much time worrying about other people and what they’re doing! Get you some business please! If you’re not financing it, why are you worried?! If you’re not wearing it, why are you worried! Moral of the story: MIND YOUR OWN DAMN BUSINESS! Please and Thank You!

  220. Felice Marie May 28, 2014 at 12:23 pm - Reply

    I’m a black woman who wears weave and I dislike not having weave. But guess what?? THATS MY CHOICE & MY PEARSONAL DECISION. Who are u to judge me??? # YourNobody So from a married, beautiful queen take this advice= TO EACH HIS OWN. SWEEP AROUND UR OWN FRONT DOOR!! IM ROCKING MY WEAVE TIL DEATH DO US PART. FOR THE RECORD MY HAIR IS PAST MY SHOULDERS. ..WEAVE IS MY CHOICE. That pastor need to read the word n not worry about people’s cosmetics. It’s nun of his bizniz. Can’t even worship without being JUDGED! #HIPOCRITE

  221. Anonymous November 19, 2013 at 2:15 pm - Reply

    Reading many of this post, Dinela(hope I got it right) has achieved her aim. To get people talking. What I’m wondering s why do more people choose to abuse and call names,heaping insults on others. Why not politely but conscrutively state your point of view. Some of U got it right, ‘why attack each other’ u all said. U are right. Yes, black hair is never straight. IF worn permed, then its chemically treated or heat treated to make it straight. It won’t last. The hair quickly goes back to its natural state/new hair grows. Look at the hair of the whites in the 70s and 80s and today. There’s a difference. They have carried out research to make it look nicer, more manageable with less stress. Its time blacks contribute/sponsor research that can lead to or advance the ability of blacks to manage her with less stress. Our natural hair troubles will be minimised if we braid them, but we have to wash the hair. Do u know how painful and badly tangled black hair gets when washed. Have U seen tears and frustration experienced from combing natural black hair. What happens if I like to change my look. I might preffer wearing my hair loss/packed some other pattern without braiding. Shouldn’t I have to choose. Its my hair. I love natural hair wearers who are showing others how to wear their natural hair in versatile ways and how to wash and manage the hair. I’ve been natural for about a year now. I love my hair, always have. Didn’t have to wait till I went natural to love it. D problem is how to manage the hair with less stress. Do U think U’ll be carrying on dis conversaton if advancement in research and experimentation leads to black hair being easier to comb with less or no pain, easily style as d owner loves. U won’t have to abuse anybody. They’ll go for it on their own coz it works. Many people who wear dis stuff do so for convenience sake and ease/less hassles to look gud. Give them a better and desirable alternative see if they won’t go for it. Personally everyday I comb my hair I have to remind myself that I don’t like to loss my hair/have thinning hair. That’s why I continue not because of some philosohy or sense of identity. I still wear weaves, I braid. Give it a rest people. Start doing something or offer constructive criticism and not insults.

  222. Jessie Pierce October 16, 2013 at 4:15 pm - Reply

    Um, ‘Drama Queen’.

  223. Nigga Please September 15, 2013 at 11:00 pm - Reply

    This is all another divide and conquer scheme the very sisters on here acting like they are better than others for wearing their natural hair or not wearing weave are just as much a part of the very problems they are discussing. The same old Willie Lynch field niggas against the house niggas, light skinned against dark skinned, fat against skinny, black against white, natural hair against perms, natural hair against weaves. It is so easy to get our people to play into these games of whom is better than who. I wish they would make an updated version of school daze to get both sides to see how damn stupid they all are. IT DOES NOT MATTER! LOVE ONE ANOTHER! HAIR DOES NOT MATTER! WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAKE UUUUUUUUUUUUUP!

  224. Nigga Please September 15, 2013 at 10:50 pm - Reply

    Right, most black girls have been perming so long they don know what texture their hair grows. My hair is natural and I wear weave to match the natural texture. I have family members with naturally red hair (ginger with freckles and all) and my hair and weave are died red. As soon as black people realize we are the first of all civilization and that we can be born with any of the same traits that “white” people have they will stop looking down on one another and insinuating that a person of color is an assimilationist for wearing light colored hair because it is indeed a lie. There is nothing wrong with changing your look. If black people had as much of a problem with “white” people getting dreads as they did seeing black people with weave then I could possibly deal with the argument but it is simply not a valid one. People can wear and change what they want about themselves. If this man really wants to help his congregation financially he should do so Biblically instead of being a critical pharisee pushing people away from the church with messages that have nothing to do with Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit or the gospel of grace! Sick of the devil using our so called own for his own foolishness. COME AS YOU ARE!

  225. Anonymous September 13, 2013 at 9:27 pm - Reply

    soooo Oprah and Michelle Obama were born with relaxers???? I guess they were really born with straight hair, smh…

  226. Brenda August 23, 2013 at 1:48 am - Reply

    Hair weaves wigs and lace fronts are a epidemic in the black community. Although white women wear fake hair just as much as black women, most bw do it for fucked up reasons, mostly self-hate and wanting to be accepted by white counter parts. It’s sad that we live in a society where bw feel the need in order to be accepted they have to perm the fuck outta their natural tresses and throw a pack-and-a-half of weave or a raggedy ass 16 – 32 inch wig on top of their heads.

    Most black fake hair wearing bitches are so stupid, they keep the Asians pockets fat wearing all that commercial shit in their heads. If they saw the process and chemicals that go in to making that fake hair, they would probably leave it alone. Then again Jim Jones killed a bunch of ignorant Negro’s who knew the truth and still followed his evil ass.

    Although pastor needs to stick to the text, he makes a valid point! I could go on forever talking about this topic but after reading some of these post and seeing the ignorance posted, I won’t waste my time… Oh one more thing!!!

    Black women saw the movie “Good Hair,” the part where they showed the perm melt the tin can and black women still went out and purchased perms. SMDH, if that wasn’t enough to scare the fuck outta them I don’t know what will. Chemical agents in relaxers/perms have also been linked to Uterine Fibroids, which black women suffer from in record number witch can lead to hysterectomy ( removal of the uterus and/or ovaries ) . I’ll stop right here cause most folks don’t like the truth…

    • sawitcoming August 28, 2013 at 12:03 pm - Reply

      I agree with you completely. I am a naturalista going on about two years now and I proudly rock my dreads. My opinion is that every time a black woman gets a that Euro or Asian weave or perms her natural hair she is saying to the white establishment that it is right: white women are the most beautiful creatures on the planet. Black ladies, you have to understand THEY think you are some ugly, gorilla looking b*. They do. They are LAUGHING at you because you’re spending all kinds of money trying to look like a white woman, but you can never be her. You can only be a poor imitation of her. I got tired of trying to emulate the white woman and other ethnicities of women with straight hair. I’m black, ya’ll. My hair should be culturally and texturally correct, always, period. When I wear my hair, I let the devils know that I am beautiful just the way I am. I have heard black women say I’m courageous. I must laugh at that. Courageous? To wear my hair the way God intended? That’s crazy talk. Here’s true talk: slavery ended almost 200 years ago. I refuse to be a slave to a beauty standard that has nothing to do with MY unique beauty.

      • Brenda August 28, 2013 at 3:31 pm - Reply

        I wish another black woman would say to me that I’m being courageous for rocking my own beautiful natural tresses. Lol! With that being said, I notice that you said slavery ended almost 200 years ago. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news my Sistha but the chains were physically lifted from black folks but the mental chains continue to exists. It’s 2013 and we’re still having dialog about black women not accepting their own God given tresses. The sad part about this whole fake hair fiasco is that most black women/men will never accept their own natural hair/skin color and will always try to live up to whiteys standards of beauty. I’m sitting here watching the 50th year anniversary since the MLK march on Washington and Mechelle Obama & Berneice King hair is permed to the Gawds. Even Oprah is sitting up their Looking like a sick poodle with all that curly weave in her hair. Michelle Obama is even known to wear a few tracks in her hair from time to time. I say that to say this; Even black women who come across as being so strong and comfortable in their skin can’t seem to break the mental chains of loving what God gave them. A wise strong black woman once said:

        I freed a thousand slaves I could have freed a thousand more if only they knew they were slaves.
        – Harriet Tubman –

    • JSalt October 12, 2013 at 10:38 pm - Reply

      I do not know why most people wear weave. However that is their choice and can choose to spend money to do as they please. I wear it because of working in a very hot environment my natural hair does not hold a hair style. That is why I wear fake ponytails that look very nice and neat after I finish working a 10 hour shift in a car manufacturing plant that has high humidity, I am not trying to look white are please any one for that matter. While at the same time just as you choose to use those disrespectful four letter words to get your point across about how you feel towards perms, weaves, etc. Bi___tches, Many times people wear what they want because it is their free right to choose and buy what they want to no matter whether someone else likes it or not. There are good reasons and bad reasons . Cancer, allopecia, heredity from our DNA and other illnesses can cause hair loss in women. There are good weaves and bad weaves. In my opinion I’m glad that we have a choice to go natural or straight wear a weave or relaxed hair. Unlike before in the 60’s.

      • Brenda October 13, 2013 at 12:52 am - Reply

        Hey Salt! You sound thirsty. Lol! Damn Ma~ this tread was months ago!! LMBAO! Sorry to strike a nerve but the truth hurts. You’re damn right about one thing and that is; ” You Can Do Whatever the Hell You Please With Your Coins. ” Who care about you pushing cars in a factory, which is even more reason why you shouldn’t have chemicals in your hair. On top of that wearing a raggedy azz ponytail which adds more stress to your already weakend hair is a recepie for disaster. Google Susan Taylor & Stevie Wonder so you can see how your hairline will look in the near future. Oh and btw they didn’t have chemicals, their damage was from wearing snatch-back do’s. I hate giving my expert advice to dumb black folks who live in Asian beauty supply stores wearing cheap weaves with Pump-it-up hair spritz. Girl, GET YO LIFE AND GET OFF MY CLIT! LOL! You sound real dumb. Sounds like you need to take a trip to your local library instead of your local beauty supply or maybe you need to loosen that tight azz ponytail Honee!! ROTF LMBAO @ You!!! can’t wait to show my co-workers your response. Anywho, thanks for being a fan, you F ing Stalker…

  227. Anonymous August 22, 2013 at 3:58 am - Reply

    Weaves are more so a convenience & save time for the working woman or mother instead of an attempt to cover up any insecurities. I’ll pay $300 upfront for a weave job if it saves me a trip to the salon every 2 weeks and time in the morning. However, Dineva makes a good point in this well written piece. Don’t buy what you can’t grow.. Skip colors, lengths, and textures that take away from your overall beauty.

    • sawitcoming August 28, 2013 at 12:09 pm - Reply

      What are you insecure about? That’s just the thing. I never found getting weaves or relaxers at all convenient and they are expensive as HELL. The only insecurity I had was with wondering if my hair would fall out or all that weave would disappear my hairline. Your own hair is more versatile and easier to care for than chemically straightened hair and fake hair, but most black women have no idea how to care for their own hair.

  228. Anonymous August 21, 2013 at 2:44 am - Reply

    YALL NEED TO STOP SAYING COME AS YOU ARE CAUSE YOU WEARING THAT WEAVE IS NOT “as you are” that would mean natural. Unless you were born with that weave glued in.

  229. Crecilla August 20, 2013 at 11:59 pm - Reply

    Focusing on hairstyles/weaves is silly and counter-productive. He should be far more concerned about the condition of his parishoner’s soul. Furthermore, if he actually wants to HELP his flock, he should sponsor a SERIES on financial management…achieving good credit, money management, retirement planning, etc. his approach to his personal pet peeve is ignorant. You cannot address the ROOT cause of financial mismanagement by saying folks shouldn’t wear expensive weaves, because if it’s not expensive weaves, it will be something else….expensive sneakers for the kids, designer foolishness, high cable bill, etc. He should attempt to address the CAUSE, and remember his calling is to share the good news of Jesus, not judge and be critical of hairstyles!

    • sawitcoming August 28, 2013 at 12:09 pm - Reply

      You’re right.

  230. Gigi August 20, 2013 at 10:54 pm - Reply

    To a point I agree with the pastor and to a degree I agree w/FD. When the pastor says that some single moms are struggling for daily survival yet they are rockin a $300 weave I agree – their priorities are mixed up. Take care of your family before you sink that kind of money in a superficial enhancement. Where I agree w/FD is the TYPE of hair that some women choose to rock. Lawdy, it’s a mess when Ii see a AA woman with a blonde 22 inch weave. There is nothing wrong w/women enhancing their beauty when one you can afford it and two when it’s used to enhance not make you look like a circus clown. No one has the right to tell the next how they should dress, do their hair, etc …… but sometimes they need to hear it.

  231. Debbie Green August 21, 2013 at 1:23 am - Reply

    Let the church say AMEN!!

  232. Jasmine Styles August 20, 2013 at 6:59 pm - Reply

    I’m a natural haired gal who wears weaves on occasion to protect my hair,and because all my natural sisters know Natural hair is a trip to keep up with! my comment on weave Is that I have no problem with a lady who wears her weave all the timeZ I’m all about doing whatever floats your boat. if wearing your Brazilian hair makes you feel more confident then by all means Go for it. If you don’t like your boobs or nose I’m all about self improvement. The Key is to do it for you. I think weave is more popular now than natural hair or pressed and relaxed hair is because that’s what we see as the “In” thing to do I mean little girls are seeing Black Disney and nickelodeon stars with Long luxurious hair and we want it too. back in the 90s all the girls were wearing the bump n curls and French rolls so we wanted it too. I don’t neccesarily think its a self hatred thing as much as its we are influenced by what we see and know. In the 60s those Motown girls weren’t wearing there hair they were wearing wigs too. Who knows in a few years we may revert back. We are so worried about what our black males and females are doing that we criticize more often then we empower and uplift. and this is why we are becoming stagnant as a people.

    • sawitcoming August 28, 2013 at 12:17 pm - Reply

      A part of it is media influence, there’s no denying that. However, black people started straightening their hair in the first place because we come from a history of being put down and oppressed by the white man, being told our hair, our skin color is WRONG. This was further reinforced by the high-toned, elite black classes at HBCU that held paper bag tests, where you couldn’t join their clubs unless your were lighter than a paper bag. My own grandmother told me this and I read about this. Add to all this the fact that white people up until very recently penalized the wearing of natural hairstyles on the job. So we have a brainwashing system going on here that tells us every single day that black hair is ugly and not “good” hair through the media, and reinforced through our own culture. This also cannot be denied. So there’s definitely an element of self-hatred and internalized oppression going on that makes black women want long, silky flowing hair in order to feel “beautiful.”

  233. Funky Nessa August 20, 2013 at 2:40 pm - Reply

    Gurl, you went off on an irrelevant tangent. You started out talking about the pastor banning weave from his church. Then, you went to martin and gina. Finally, you ended up talking about that ugly arse wanda/shenehneh charachter you created. My hair is layed like confused after reading this foolishness.

    • Teandra B August 20, 2013 at 5:47 pm - Reply

      I disagree I understand exactly what he saying I am jamacian/indian/dominican/caucasian and you would think I have hair down my back curly and thick but no the opisite and have been teased about it so I got a weave others loved it I hated it I went back to my natural and stop letting people play with my self esteem and love what God created an unique woman. I was born an original so I be damned I die a copy of a fake mainsteam society

      • stlbelle August 20, 2013 at 11:36 pm - Reply

        I love it. I couldn’t have said it any better. I was born an original so I be damned I die a copy of a fake mainsteam society ! YESSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Big chop 3 1/2 yrs ago & type 4b4c hair.

  234. Anonymous August 20, 2013 at 2:33 pm - Reply

    Thank u for this post FD. Hopefully it’ll open up the minds of some.

    • Dreby August 20, 2013 at 2:59 pm - Reply

      i agree totally !!!!

  235. Shelly Chambers August 20, 2013 at 6:06 pm - Reply

    I think 2 each is on..the way some of their heads look they should gladly wear a weave,and it´s not about black and white any more,so my white women and ESP celebrity women are wearing weaves and clip on..paster is going 2 hell for judging..what about people that have cancer and looses all of their hair?the wigs and weave help boost their self esteem

    • sawitcoming August 28, 2013 at 1:01 pm - Reply

      White women are not clipping in nappy hair weave. They are clipping in weave that has the same texture of hair that they do naturally straight or wavy. So don’t drag them into it. They do not have a history of being oppressed as a people and put down as a people for how they look. White women set the beauty standard in Western society.

    • sharon johnson December 11, 2013 at 12:04 pm - Reply

      U have it twisted. He s not talkin about ppl with cancer missed it he’s sayin poor ppl who can’t afford to pay there livin expensives run out to buy hair

  236. BOSSBISH August 20, 2013 at 1:17 pm - Reply


    • BOSSBISH August 20, 2013 at 1:23 pm - Reply


      • Stick to preachin' February 5, 2014 at 4:35 pm - Reply

        So do I, don’t tell me what to do with my hair when old heads wear wigs since god knows when it’s still fake, I get it with the wild colors and things but if u wear a normal toned down hair style I don’t see why that is sinful. My church is the same no braids. It I wear them where they look like a regular hairstyle not big dukey braids I curl the hair or wear like a wrap. Until I see all those wig wearers take off their wigs and hair pieces I’m not complying. Stick to preaching not judging . It’s ridiculous.

  237. HTown Psych August 20, 2013 at 12:38 pm - Reply

    Man y’all kill me with this. Black women pretend to be such church-going, God fearing women who virtually eat out of the palm of our pastor’s hand… UNTIL he says something that hits close to home. If he starts to get on to black women about some of y’all’s (I’m excluding myself from this fuckery) behavior, whether it is having a bunch of out of wedlock kids or hiding behind a mountain of fake hair that many of you can’t even afford, then suddenly the pastors’ words mean nothing and he can go jump in the lake. Black women have GOT to start being able to receive feedback from our men. They are saying ENOUGH with the fake crap and instead of listening, many of us want to fight and say stupid stuff like “white women wear extensions, too” when we all know good and well there are no white women getting their lights cut off so they can purchase a bundle of Brazillian wavy hair!

  238. Octavia Jackson August 20, 2013 at 4:35 pm - Reply

    The pastor has a point. People can fight and yell and defiantly say “I´ll do what I want with MY head” until they are blue in the face, but his point (if not his method) is valid. There is a serious complex with hair and European beauty standards in the black community. And before anyone starts, we are NOT talking about women who occasionally rock a sew-in or braids during transition, special events, or for a fun change-up. We are NOT talking about women with a medical condition like cancer or alopecia. We are talking about the girl we all know who will let her light bill get behind just so she can have a bundle of Brazillian wavy–the girl who you´ve never SEEN with her natural hair–the girl who will neglect her body and her health b/c she can´t “sweat out” her hair. This is not about beauty enhancement anymore, this is now about a collective self-esteem issue.

    • Anonymous August 20, 2013 at 1:43 pm - Reply

      very well put

    • amber August 20, 2013 at 9:14 pm - Reply

      you hit the nail right on the head. This is not an issue of passing judgement, this is a serious issue about women who will literally go broke and homeless to have someone else’s hair in their head. I personally worked with a woman who was a single mom and told me that she couldn’t choose between paying her rent next month or buying this expensive weave she wanted so bad. Really? I saw her a week or two later with this abundant weave all in her hair-clearly her decision had been made. She then went on to tell me that sure enough she was getting evicted and this grown 40-something year old adult was moving back into her mothers house all because she wanted weave in her hair. I am not one to judge by ANY means, but as a mother of two young girls myself, you have to figure out our PRIORITIES. Shoot I love weave myself I toggle between wearing my hair and my clip-ins and would love to buy all types of fancy hair but I also understand that my children need food, gas, lights, and a home. Please ladies lets get it together!

    • Ms. Dawn August 22, 2013 at 11:33 am - Reply

      I agree to a point. I think he shoud address the root of the problem overall. If it’s self esteem then have a series about that. Like someone said already have a series about financial security and stablility. You can’t just talk about the symptoms you have to treat the root. You think someone saying you can’t wear a weave in this church is going to make anyone stop spending thier light bill to get one? Probably not. I’m natural but I’m not a nazi, I do wear weave from time to time for a break. I do agree with the fact that if you don’t feel good with what God gave you (relaxed/press and curl/natural or whatever) , you need to work on your self esteem. If you can’t afford it you need to work on your priorities.

  239. Destiny John August 20, 2013 at 3:33 pm - Reply

    I have natural hair do…..and I´m still saying “Awe Hell Naw!!”

  240. Tee August 20, 2013 at 10:42 am - Reply

    What about the white church goers? Are black women the only race of women to wear weave in masses? No, white women have been wearing weaves as long as we have. I personally think it’s up to the person of what they do with their hair. Do I think its dumb to spend $300 on hair that isn’t yours and your fundamental needs aren’t being met? Yes. The amount of money black women spend on weaves would be better suited taking care of their real hair. But I also understand reasons for wearing it. Some people are transitioning and don’t want to damage their real hair. Some women may be suffering from cancer or alopecia. There are various reasons why women wear weave but I think that there are much more pertinent issues that could be addressed, especially given the platform of the church.

    • HTown Psych August 20, 2013 at 12:27 pm - Reply

      We need to stop with THAT lie. No other race of women glue and stitch hair of another race on their head like black women do. There are some black women who you will NEVER see with her natural hair. That is not beauty enhancement, that is HIDING who you are. No one is talking about women who are wearing a sew-in or braids for a few months or even a year to grow out their relaxer. No one is talking about people with cancer or alopecia. You are just REACHING. We know the type that he is talking about–the ones who will be on public assistance or have no food in the fridge, but will ALWAYS have some European wavy hair on her head.

  241. Shanda Huling August 20, 2013 at 2:29 pm - Reply

    CHILE BYE! What does his first lady look like…..Harriet Tubman

    • Toni Williams August 20, 2013 at 4:53 pm - Reply

      You get the prize for most ignorant comment to this post. So it is your thought that Harriet Tubman, freedom fighter, conductor for the underground railroad should be used as the archetype of how black women shouldn’t look? The same woman who fought for the freedoms of our ancestors; you ma’am are not fit to look her boots People are so worried about how others will perceive the visually and forget about what is on the inside. So your outside persona is tight, but your inner self is dead For you this must be true to even leave a comment about such a great figure in history.

    • jw July 16, 2014 at 12:09 am - Reply

      You are funny

  242. Melissa August 20, 2013 at 10:16 am - Reply

    I am in total agreement. With you FD, not the pastor. What DID happen to those days when women without weaves out numbered women with them in high numbers? Whatever makes you feel good about yourself is OK. But, nowadays when I walk down say, 125th in Harlem I see so many women with weaves exactly as you said. In textures and colors that either do not suit them or, would not grow out of their head. The pastor needs to read the bible one more time. The hairstyle should not matter. The character of the person should. If he is serious about peoples priorities being skewed… Preach about that. Don’t dictate.

    • Sterling Infinity Fan August 20, 2013 at 10:37 am - Reply

      God created beauty! As long as you know you’re beautiful without the weave, makeup up etc.. I say DO IT UP baby! Yass God knows some people need it.. I don’t want to be lookin at no snatched scalped women down at the church house on saturday morning!

      Now as quiet as its kept, we should be encouraging these women to fix themselves up and sidenote: please invest in good hair not that plastic sh^t i was at a function when a women’s hair matted up on the back of her neck after a few hours on the dance florr.

      • sawitcoming August 28, 2013 at 1:07 pm - Reply

        What black women SHOULD invest in is learning how to style the hair God gave them, the hair that grows out of their scalp naturally. Whether braids, a short fro, twists, or an updo black women need to learn how to cherish and take care of their own hair.

  243. Robin Stills August 20, 2013 at 2:08 pm - Reply

    DITTO~~ Monte Hytche!

  244. Loving This Site August 20, 2013 at 8:49 am - Reply

    You know black women loved to follow whatever the pastor, preacher, deacon says so I hope they listen. All of that chemicals is bad for your hair. Weaves tear up your edges and relaxing your hair is just plain bad for you. The sad part about it is that most young girls I know can not braid or twist hair because their mother did not show them, but they can apply a perm with their eyes close.

  245. Bernetta Blessed Williams August 20, 2013 at 12:17 pm - Reply

    I think the Pastor was trying to send a message that you shouldn´t have 300.00 worth of weave on your head and your bills aren´t being paid. it sounds like he should link up with TJSotomayor on that subject

  246. Anonymous August 20, 2013 at 1:37 am - Reply

    Why did the pastor only ban weaves? If you follow his argument there’s a lot that should be banned from his church,… Jordans, fancy cars, rims, jewelry, make up, nails, etc. People purchase these items to “try to be something and someone they are not.” It seems like he just picked what he found unappealing to him. So his argument doesn’t hold water.

  247. sharon August 20, 2013 at 12:16 am - Reply

    We have so many real issues in our community….Hair is the least of the Pastors issues…Need to have a job fair and go on a mission trip to save souls and stop talking about hair… get a real walk with Jesus…

  248. Deatra Askew-Gard August 20, 2013 at 3:53 am - Reply

    its not that serious…I can point out a whole lot more than weaves…weaves is not a problem pastor….what happen to come as you are….

    • Toni Williams August 20, 2013 at 4:58 pm - Reply

      But that is just it you are not coming as you are, but what you want everybody to believe you are. Which is a false image. So please people stop using the argument come as you are, because to do that is to be in total ageement with the pasture. ijs

  249. Eric Jones August 20, 2013 at 3:51 am - Reply

    I love the homophobic remarks on this post, smh. How can you get mad about a pastor judging you about a damn weave when you want to judge people for being gay, commenters step your game up.

    • Lolaaaa August 20, 2013 at 8:24 am - Reply

      What are you talking about? I haven’t seen one homophobic comment yet and I started from the bottom where the comments begin.

  250. Ashaki Jones August 20, 2013 at 3:12 am - Reply

    Well his church will be empty because almost 100% wear it

    • Sterling Infinity Fan August 20, 2013 at 10:38 am - Reply

      Haha he just needs to have classes teaching people how to put things in perspective.. Case and point don’t be spending ya babies food money on ya weave… But as quiet as its kept a good weave can earn U some money. Get ya hair right and catch a fione man hahaha

  251. Anonymous August 19, 2013 at 10:56 pm - Reply

    every one is so hard on black women and their hair and getting textures we werent born w/ but NO ONE says anything about black men trying to get waves, (cause u know u werent born with that hair pattern)

  252. Anonymous August 19, 2013 at 10:45 pm - Reply

    Black men are a reflection of the black womb they come out of, so TJ if u happen to be black than your just as ugly as your mother, who has to be grouped in this most unattractive women on the planet category u speak of lets not get it twisted the only reason y black men are not deemed as ugly like their female counter parts its b/c white America doesnt want u to stop slinging big dicks and providing entertainment. WAKE UP PEOPLE!

    • sawitcoming August 28, 2013 at 1:09 pm - Reply

      One of the most insightful comments I’ve read on here.

  253. T J August 19, 2013 at 10:07 pm - Reply

    Black females are the most unattractive women on the planet. What other explanation could explain why black females spend so much money on their head !
    I love black ladies who are ladies, not walking wig shops!

    • sharon August 20, 2013 at 12:27 am - Reply

      More than black women wear weaves…Actually it started in the 1800 with the Wig Party…A poltical party that actually wore wigs as a symboly of noblity…We are beautiful with or with out a weave…

      • kellzann August 20, 2013 at 10:25 am - Reply

        honey wigs have been around wayyyyyyyy before the wig party!

    • jw July 16, 2014 at 12:03 am - Reply

      You are apparently jealous of black women. Most women of other ethnicity often attempt to be like most black women bigger buttocks, fuller lips, etc.
      Black women you are beautiful.!

  254. BobbyBrownsUnhingedLowerJaw August 19, 2013 at 9:51 pm - Reply

    i thought u were going to say something about the passa not wanting them to give coins to get they hair did, but put it in the collection plate instead! lol!

    although i have to admit, i was a pioneer of weave back in the day (my brother was a hair stylist and used me as his guinea pig….i didnt have to pay and practice made perfect, so it was a win/win for us both)

    but yeah, these heffalumps now a days act like this if they dont have some yacktracks all up and thru…. fast forward to 1:20

  255. Anonymous August 19, 2013 at 9:35 pm - Reply

    Oh hell NO! If they take their weave out they’re going to look more f’ed up then they already are. The pastor need to teach them how to cut or put weave on their nappy a$$ pu$$y hair.

    • Ms. Dawn August 22, 2013 at 11:39 am - Reply

      Now YOU have officially won the award for the most ignorant comment on this post.

  256. Telia Art August 20, 2013 at 1:34 am - Reply

    So is the deacons drinking beer, the cheating that goes on at churches on spouses, and money not being managed right that should be going towards the building fund allow or did he just not get to that yet??? Point is its way more important things going on at the church that needs to be omitted that gets ignored..you can buy a 20$ pack of hair any day so over spending on weave cnt be the reason.

  257. Tiffany Hawkins August 20, 2013 at 1:29 am - Reply

    lol, I heard them talkin about this on the radio

  258. Kim Molag August 20, 2013 at 1:26 am - Reply

    Tiffany Hawkins

  259. Molly August 19, 2013 at 9:17 pm - Reply

    What’s baffling to me is why men feel the constant need to offer their opinions on issues that don’t pertain to or affect them.
    Something I’m learning as I get older is that if it doesn’t have anything to do with me, and If I have no experience on the topic, then maybe I shouldn’t offer my opinion. Try it. It will change your life.

    • mscurious August 19, 2013 at 9:23 pm - Reply

      Hear! Hear! Preach!!!!!!!

    • Pastor Nick. August 19, 2013 at 10:17 pm - Reply

      Molly you are a little off on this one. Anything that affects our Black Queens affect us as men. For too long we are relegated to the rear of the room not being allowed to stand up and defend our sisters. I commented because this issue is so non spiritually related and whether the pastor is black or white enough already. My wife is beautiful, black and I pay for every strand of weave she wears in her head. No one and I mean no one is going to criticize her or any other black woman as long as I have breath in my body…………..A Black Man, a Black Pastor, The Father of a Black Women……any questions??????

      • sharon August 20, 2013 at 12:12 am - Reply

        Thank you… I please tell them when you stand up for us …please go fight a real battle like getting our men out of drugs and gangs…Acting more like jealous women than men in leadership…

        • Sterling Infinity Fan August 20, 2013 at 10:41 am - Reply

          Co sign since we are on the subject of banding things can we please band these men going around looking like cheap pimps?

    • Loving This Site August 20, 2013 at 9:00 am - Reply

      What the woman does in her household affects the whole community because they are generally the heads of their household. The children they raise are the byproduct of their household. If you are spending $300 on your weave but you are struggling financially, then that teachers your child that your weave is more important than maintaining the household or the family’s basic needs.

  260. Anonymous August 19, 2013 at 9:13 pm - Reply

    You know this is not going to last long. Too many black women love wearing other races hair in their head, which makes them look ridiculous.. It’s kind of sad that blk women try to look like women of other races. *shrugs shoulder*

  261. Kim Molag August 20, 2013 at 1:13 am - Reply

    The Doll has all the Tea #noshade

  262. Pastor Nick. August 19, 2013 at 9:12 pm - Reply

    I have one question to ask, where in either Testament, Old or New, does it say in the exact quote that seemingly everyone quotes, “come as you are” and it references mode of dress. My other observation is if you say that your church is struggling financially and you won’t permit female members or visitors in the Lord’s house then your financial difficulties are not an issue. I have been pastoring for 36 years and preaching for 41 years. I am neither liberal or Conservative. I am born again, saved, sanctified and filled with HIs Holy Spirit. To suggest that Jesus gave a wholesale invitation concerning dress runs counter to the parable of the wedding feast. When garments were provided for the guests and one guests refused to put on the garment were provided, the host had the guest unceremoniously removed from the feast. The actions of this pastor are puzzling to some, confusing to others and just hypocritical for most. For too long unrelated issues have taken priority over more scriptural issues, salvation, justification, regeneration, sanctification and so on. I keep ever before me that the body belongs to God and he has allowed me to be a steward over His church. In doing so whenever the children act up I tell daddy because He can correct them far better than I can. Pray for each other not create controversy for the sake of publicity….

    • Anonymous August 19, 2013 at 9:29 pm - Reply

      Amen pastor

    • Ms. Dawn August 22, 2013 at 11:42 am - Reply

      See that’s what I’m talking about!!

  263. Sal SG Graham August 20, 2013 at 1:12 am - Reply

    Bwahaha! Kim Molag where do you find this mess at? Lol! Ariel Rollins you stewpid!

  264. Kim Molag August 20, 2013 at 1:10 am - Reply

    LMAO Sal SG Graham this fool Ariel Rollins

  265. Ariel Rollins August 20, 2013 at 1:08 am - Reply

    lmao, u bring me into this shyt Kim Molag??? I´m taking the high road on this one………..wait, well maybe he said it because he´s tired of smelling that scent of fresh 1 and 1B synthetic hair…..or maybe he wishes his plate would get that weave money instead it going to little Korea…..Or it could even be that he wants to see what´s really on the ladies minds.

  266. Kim Molag August 20, 2013 at 1:01 am - Reply

    Ariel Rollins

  267. Jacinta Richard August 20, 2013 at 12:59 am - Reply

    i´d be like fuck this church im out

  268. Tierra. August 19, 2013 at 8:34 pm - Reply

    I understand what he’s trying to say but to focus on “weave wearing” is stupid. Talk about how superficial and insecure we have become, our priorities, or how we need to embrace our individuality especially black women. How are you supposed to be a leader but you cant express yourself effectively?

  269. LaMont Wheat August 20, 2013 at 12:32 am - Reply

    Yes, David Corbitt we would have to stop wearing our quick weaves… Damn..Jesus!

  270. DatzRue August 19, 2013 at 8:30 pm - Reply

    I understand where both the Pastor and the writer of this blog is coming from. Some women feel like they need weave these days because they feel that without it they reduced to less than human. I don’t think there is anything wrong with wearing weaves just as long as it not too much. I’ve seen women walking around looking like Beyonce on tour, she working ladies not at the mall, that’s her image while on stage. Also you have people wearing weaves down they ass and pink in color. I’m going to be honest some women hair weaves are a distraction! Some of these women pay more for weave than they pay for their children’s education and in some case more than they paying on meals for their children…<—- Catch them Tttttttttttttt. So maybe if it looked a lil more natural just to enhance your own beauty that's fine, but if I can't recognize you after you get yo hair done its too much. Stay in yo lane ladies. This pastor is just saying what a lot of people think! My opinion!

    • Anonymous August 19, 2013 at 9:36 pm - Reply

      His church will be empty soon because first weaves then there will be something else next. I’m a pastor’s wife and wear weave because I like it. Teach people about being good stewards of God’s money and stop focusing on stuff that don’t matter

    • sharon August 20, 2013 at 12:24 am - Reply

      How do youknow what all women feel you just one lone voice speak for your self…Seems you are the one out the correct lane…Saty in your lane!

    • Loving This Site August 20, 2013 at 9:07 am - Reply

      My friend works as a receptionist for an auto repo place. Last week these two ladies came in fussing that the car got repo’d. Said they need the car to get from point A to B because of the rural area in Michigan. They trying to sell a sob story but both got real hair, not synthetic hair in their heads all the way down to their butt. So to these ladies having all that long fake hair was more important than paying for the car note and keeping the tags up to date. I agree with the pastor. Do not put a want in front of your basic needs.

  271. Libra Classic August 20, 2013 at 12:29 am - Reply

    That´s probably his plan, Lisa Barber, LOLOL – run all the women out and turn it into the Karen Clark Sheard Cruising In The Name Church Of Latter Day Butch Queens…

  272. Keshia Lovingkindhearted Kemp August 20, 2013 at 12:26 am - Reply

    next it´s gonna be No nails and lashes!! Hell wth imma do then ugh

  273. Shaun Scribbz August 20, 2013 at 12:25 am - Reply

    What about sister mother deaconess salt and pepper wig??

  274. Lisa Barber August 20, 2013 at 12:25 am - Reply

    What about wigs? Old ladies wear them. What about a cancer survivor who is insecure about her looks? His church is gonna be a sausage fest!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lol

  275. Cheri Akins August 20, 2013 at 12:25 am - Reply

    Nooooooooo Libra Classic not the Bibles_______________

  276. DanitaGodsfavorrn Jones August 20, 2013 at 12:21 am - Reply

    Teaching about tithes and offering will teach about financial responsiblity with your money toward God..not a church or pastor. Alot people dont pay their tithes due to church mishandling. But its about your obedience. And thats between you and God. Banning weaves is a stupid ignit response. If folks aint paying tithe and offering..ya might need to look at ya preaching. Being a pastor can just be a title and not a calling. Ooooo..im preachin good up in hea….where´s my offering….lolllll…

    • Anonymous August 19, 2013 at 9:33 pm - Reply

      Truth all day

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  278. Libra Classic August 20, 2013 at 12:17 am - Reply

    LMFAO @ everybody must go…that church gonna be EMPTEEEEEEEEE…no weaves in church, LMFAO – he´d have better luck getting rid of the Bibles…

  279. Chontate Brown August 20, 2013 at 12:17 am - Reply

    trust me, his church and I mean his church is not suffering financially due to hair weaves and gym shoes, it is because he never laid the foundation down in the first place on the importance of tithes and offerings. When a pastor has great revelation knowledge and wisdom to teach his congregation with clear understanding, his members will show their shepherd and God their love. (Yes, Pastor are called sheperds too, because they are there to feed the congregation with the Word. If he did so, he wouldn´t have to suggest such gestures. Many of times, when the church are suffering financially is because it was not their calling from the Lord above to be a pastor in the first place. Many pastor thinks this is they calling when they probably only to need to serve in the ministry such as the praise team, teen ministry, church leaders, but not Pastor. God will not call you into being a Pastor and build His Church, without providing the needs for His church. Instead of him taking it out on the weaves, maybe he need to have an one on one with God! ijs

  280. Cheri Akins August 20, 2013 at 12:14 am - Reply

    Whaaaaat!!!!! well he mind as well get rid of his wife,daughter,nieces hell nephew & sons too *screams* lmfao!!!!! Every body must go maybe even you *n my kat Williams voice* ctfu Libra Classic

  281. Janey Tate August 19, 2013 at 8:14 pm - Reply

    Didn’t mean to be anonymous. forgot to add my name to that last comment

  282. Rainey SoMotivated Roberts August 20, 2013 at 12:13 am - Reply

    the lord said come as you are…

  283. Anonymous August 19, 2013 at 8:13 pm - Reply

    Leah John I agree with you and Funcky Dineva. But at the end of the day it’s a person’s choice to wear weave or not. If wearing weave makes them feel better abt themselves, even if it looks ridiculously fake, then let them live. The book the Four Agreements states (paraphrasing) that we are a secondary character in someone else’s life story, therefore we should not care what they do. And quite honestly I don’t. I’ve natural, permed, weaved and everything else in between and at the end of the day, I’ve learned that I am not my hair (as cliche as it sounds).

  284. Dee Nice August 19, 2013 at 8:08 pm - Reply

    “I lead a church where our members are struggling financially. I mean really struggling. “Yet, a 26 year old mother in my church has a $300 weave on her head. NO. I will not be quiet about this.”

    I get that he is concerned with the financial welfare of his congregation… I even respect that he recognizes that they are struggling. However, what kind of car does he drive? What type of house does he live in? Is he well off? Is his living that way a result of his pay from being a pastor? If so… shouldn’t he take a pay cut if he is so concerned with the financial well being of his congregation? This is just another attempt to distract people from really hearing the word of God. God’s word says nothing about how a person looks. God is more concerned with what we look like inside, and not what we look like on the outside. Smh… He seems like just another wolf in sheep’s clothing.

  285. Tiffini August 19, 2013 at 8:01 pm - Reply

    I don’t understand what the big deal is about wearing weaves. If you don’t like it, don’t wear it. I love wearing weaves, extensions, wigs, one track, two tracks, full head weave, partial weave, 10 inch, 30 inch, blonde, blue, curly, straight…what’s in my head has nothing to do with anyone else but me. I don’t think just because I wear a weave it means I have low self-esteem. I love being black and I love being a black woman, and I love my natural hair. I feel like shopping for hair is like shopping for shoes, its a fun way to change up my look and try something new. Like in the mid-90’s with people wearing color contact lenses, it’s just something fun and different. And I think that’s why weaves are so common place now days because people see it more as an accessory rather than a way to blend in with societies perception of who we ought to be. It’s not just black women doing it either, women of all colors (Jennifer Lopez, Britney Spears) wear weaves and wigs to enhance their look. As for that pastor he is wrong, dead wrong and then wrong some more. If you want to call out single mothers with $300 weaves, then you have to call out their dead beat baby daddy’s who can’t pay child support, live at home with their mama and have fresh new Jordan’s every week. Or how many members in that congregation drive high end cars (Lexus, BMW, Mercedes) but don’t tithe on a regular basis. Or maybe he should check himself, how much does he spend on the suites, ties and gators that he wears on the pulpit every Sunday? In my bible Jesus hung out with the sinners, the liars and the thieves because he knew they needed saving. What he did not do was cast them out of his presence because he disagreed with their hairstyles. So perhaps that pastor should stop clockin’ peoples tracks and do what Jesus would do! Of all of the serious issues affecting the black community as a whole (poverty, single-parent homes, violence) overspending on weave may be a valid issue, but if that is at the top of the list then we are worse off then I thought we were.

    • Anonymous August 19, 2013 at 10:23 pm - Reply

      I totally agree

    • Ms. Dawn August 22, 2013 at 11:50 am - Reply

      In other words “ain’t nobody got time for that!”

  286. LaTrice Taylor-Small August 20, 2013 at 12:00 am - Reply

    I rock my weaves when I feel like it! I rock my braids when I feel like it! And I rock my hair when I feel like it! This pastor is concentrating on the wrong things, though I do agree that if you can´t pay your bills or take care of your children then your hair should not cost $300! I work, I go to school, I am a mother, I am a wife, I am active in my church, I pay my tithes, I pay my bills, and I wear weave!

  287. Libra Classic August 19, 2013 at 11:59 pm - Reply

    But how he gonna enforce that? I wanna see that SO bad…I should bring my grandmother there and not tell her the rules. She´s like Aretha – she don´t even bother to blend her edges no more…

  288. Libra Classic August 19, 2013 at 11:57 pm - Reply

    Cheri Akins – would you go to this church?

  289. April Austin Crews August 19, 2013 at 11:56 pm - Reply

    Wow, pastor, pass judgment much?

  290. Bianca Shey August 19, 2013 at 11:53 pm - Reply

    Well its his chuch (not God´s) his rules i guess. smh

  291. champagne1908 August 19, 2013 at 7:52 pm - Reply

    Leigh John you said it perfectly!

  292. Niesha Gourdine August 19, 2013 at 11:49 pm - Reply

    welp, guess church services will b closed on Sunday because of the lack of women…(and their children) lol… this is such an idiot thing to do…

  293. Leah August 19, 2013 at 7:47 pm - Reply

    I am curious as to why in our society, men often try to dictate womens behavior and appearance. It is possible men play a role in insecurities women have if in fact they are insecure at all. Just a thought.

    • sawitcoming August 28, 2013 at 1:14 pm - Reply

      Lots of black women weave because men like that straight hair and they need to compete with that Asian girl or that white girl for the brother’s attention. Everyday, black women are fed propaganda about how ugly we are and how we have bad, nappy, unruly and ugly hair. So it doesn’t surprise me that some women who were not taught pride in themselves as black women resort to weaves. Sad but true.

  294. Cashanta Murry August 19, 2013 at 11:44 pm - Reply

    what?? Is he going to have the ushers do the ´root´ test?? Chile cheeze

  295. Lady Gray August 19, 2013 at 11:42 pm - Reply
  296. Kristin Little August 19, 2013 at 11:40 pm - Reply

    I guess the men wearing weaves are next because that´s the core demographic of churches nowadays!!

  297. Crystal Taniko August 19, 2013 at 11:39 pm - Reply

    What did weaves do to him?!

  298. MiAndrea TeLo West August 19, 2013 at 11:36 pm - Reply

    Jelicia Vercher Lol! I guess yo @$$ can´t attend services there….lol!

  299. Leigh John August 19, 2013 at 7:35 pm - Reply

    I can not for the life of me understand why someone is so concerned with what someone else does with their look. We , just like any other race, have the right to change up our look, without being labeled insecure. White women started weave and color, most are not true blondes with long hair either. Stop putting people in a box, are there insecure people who wear weaves, yes, are there insecure people without weaves, yes. This whole thing is another attack on black women. Newsflash, not all people look good with short hair, and not all people look good with long hair. You should be able to adjust to what suits you and not what someone else deems appropriate for your entire race. I am so sick of the natural vs fake crap, its worst than colorism. A weave is no different than hair cuts, eye brow waxes, baths and showers, etc. I dare those of you claiming that natural is best to go without all the other things that are fake such as deodorant, soap, toothpaste, and haircuts, be truly natural. All things that you are not born with on your body is an enhancement, the end and period.

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    • jlee August 19, 2013 at 9:00 pm - Reply

      You wore it OUT!!!!

  300. Marlisha Robinson August 19, 2013 at 11:35 pm - Reply

    If his congregation is suffering financially, maybe they should get a waiver on paying tithes to start a personal savings account. He should have a finance expert come in & teach. Financial Priorities will be the subject. And them a Self Image & Awareness coach. However, this may take away from his future ignorant topics. Smh

    • MilaJ August 27, 2013 at 3:37 pm - Reply

      Church and Weave? Well I feel some kind of way about the Pastor addressing this a subject in the Church in the manner which he presented it. I feel that on a scale of all the issues in our community this is the least of them, but there is a way to appropriately to get a message out with being offensive. The Pastor actually did what a lot of people do to women who wear weaves is to shame them about it, which if he feels that they wear them because they lack self esteem and trying to be something that they are not, well shaming them in front of an entire congregation was the answer? Not sure of his approach and feel like someone mentioned have workshops on financial priorities and self awareness.

  301. Kimberly L Carter August 19, 2013 at 11:30 pm - Reply

    Blank stare…wow

  302. Janet V. August 19, 2013 at 11:30 pm - Reply

    Yet another pastor passing judgement

  303. Charisse LuLu Lindsay August 19, 2013 at 11:30 pm - Reply

    ______________________________straight dead!

  304. LaChelle OnehundredPercentreal Steele August 19, 2013 at 11:27 pm - Reply

    I thought Jesus said come as you are?

  305. Mel S Moffitte August 19, 2013 at 11:25 pm - Reply

    Lmao! How will he know?? Check each head for tracks?? Lol

  306. Tamika D Jackson August 19, 2013 at 11:25 pm - Reply

    He gone check em at the door or what

  307. Sug Avery August 19, 2013 at 11:25 pm - Reply

    I bet he like his ho´s to wear a weave

  308. Semira Teclesenbet August 19, 2013 at 11:25 pm - Reply

    Find another church!

  309. Semira Teclesenbet August 19, 2013 at 11:25 pm - Reply

    I think it wrong of him to ban weaves. My hair is long I wear weaves and wigs that are usually short to change my look. I think its judgmental he is sending the wrong message.

  310. Marie Franklin-Swann August 19, 2013 at 11:24 pm - Reply

    Pastor needs to mind his business!!!

  311. Lu Lu DeLeon August 19, 2013 at 7:23 pm - Reply

    I’m speechless!

  312. Yoyo August 19, 2013 at 7:23 pm - Reply

    I think it’s a woman’s prerogative to wear her hair however she sees fit. Furthermore, church is the last place to dictate how a woman’s hair is to be worn. What’s next, no make-up?

  313. ScripturesOf BlackLove August 19, 2013 at 11:23 pm - Reply

    BeWeave Bitches He Won´t Be Laying Hands on Y´all Heads Anointing Y´all with Thine Oils of Righteousness kmsl

  314. Laila SoHeartless Marciano August 19, 2013 at 11:21 pm - Reply

    Pastor needs to mind his business…

  315. NeshaKeith Wallace August 19, 2013 at 11:21 pm - Reply

    I agree with his reason for doing so. I mean, if your congregation is suffering financially then most likely they don´t tithe and have problems paying bills. So where do they get money to pay $300 for hair weave. It´s about priorities and if hair is number 1 on your life then you need to reevaluate yourself. Don´t get me wrong I don´t think there´s anything wrong with wearing a weave from time to time but you should at least be set financially and comfortable in your own look without the help of add-ons. Ijs

  316. Carmen Witcher-Gold August 19, 2013 at 11:20 pm - Reply

    If he don´t carry his add somewhere N sattid down ninja please. This is why I believe my relationship with God don´t have a thing to do with “Church”. Why are you worrying about weaves and haven´t said a thing about men buying 300 tennis shoes maybe if you would have just discussed PRIORITIES it would have covered all of that and not singled out the women……what a dumbass!!! Everybody ain´t meant to lead

  317. Nikki Williams August 19, 2013 at 11:14 pm - Reply

    He´s just mad they spending $350 on weave and not dropping it in the collection plate!

  318. LaTonya Woo´sQueen Albert August 19, 2013 at 11:13 pm - Reply

    Can we say All men congregation

  319. Rocio Taveras August 19, 2013 at 11:13 pm - Reply

    smh that´s ridiculous

  320. Jessica N. Newton August 19, 2013 at 11:12 pm - Reply

    I agree with him. If your congregation is suffering financially, and you see this is a reason why, then speak the truth, shame the devil. Don´t spend $300 on weave then come to the church food pantry… It´s all about priorities.

  321. Bri Williams August 19, 2013 at 11:12 pm - Reply

    She will have no members! Lol

  322. Shuntae Barker August 19, 2013 at 11:11 pm - Reply

    Lmaoooo @albert Massey

  323. Alaedra Imnottallyourejustshort Barham August 19, 2013 at 11:10 pm - Reply

    So….next hes gonn say stop relaxing your hair. LOL

  324. Monique McCray August 19, 2013 at 11:10 pm - Reply

    Welp! I´ll just take my building fund somewhere else…hmphh!!

  325. Rita Smith August 19, 2013 at 11:10 pm - Reply

    Yes they do!

  326. Terrard Robinson August 19, 2013 at 11:10 pm - Reply

    This is probably the same kind of nigga sucking on King Eddie Long´s dick.

  327. Albert Massey August 19, 2013 at 11:09 pm - Reply

    He wont have a congregation… Why he didn´t add men wearing beijing to the list is beyond me….

  328. Desiray Ward August 19, 2013 at 11:08 pm - Reply

    What happened to come as you are!?

  329. Grandness Prevails August 19, 2013 at 11:07 pm - Reply

    Pews will gather dust messing with me

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  331. IAm Danni B August 19, 2013 at 11:07 pm - Reply

    Everybody & they mama don´t wear weave…including me AND my mama!

  332. Tory Sucka-Free August 19, 2013 at 11:06 pm - Reply

    Chile Cheese!! In the voice of The Doll with my reeeeeeeeeed lipstick on

  333. Kyle Spencer August 19, 2013 at 11:06 pm - Reply

    Worry less about the fashions of your sheep and focus on the salvation of their souls.

  334. Brashaa Hoy August 19, 2013 at 11:06 pm - Reply

    He know all that money going to weaves is messing with his collections.. sheeple go to church anyway lol.

  335. Para Thomas August 19, 2013 at 11:05 pm - Reply

    Less weave more for the love offering

  336. Shaun Bennett West August 19, 2013 at 11:05 pm - Reply

    I have been chatting about this today and agree with much you´ve stated in your article. I want women to get their priorities straight and this Pastor to focus on teaching financial responsibility and obedience to the word…not so much on whether or not you spent your tithe money on some good Virgin Indian hair and a decent sew-in. I guess his heart may be in the right place but his approach is terribly wrong. And please say it 27 more times that all this 37 inch, crazy color hair in everyday society (not for entertainment) is absolutely ridiculous! Stop the madness!!!

  337. Ke Kutiepie Chambers August 19, 2013 at 11:04 pm - Reply

    well he must know he gonna be preaching,singing,taking offering and everything all by himself!! everybody and they mama wear weave and some daddies to!!

  338. Denise Rich August 19, 2013 at 11:03 pm - Reply

    What about wigs?

  339. Whitney Gaspard August 19, 2013 at 11:03 pm - Reply

    these pastor´s not really for the lord because if they were they would know that you can come to church as you are.

  340. Kisha Harrelson August 19, 2013 at 11:03 pm - Reply

    I´m glad especially the lace fronts!

  341. Thenonhousewivesof SF August 19, 2013 at 11:02 pm - Reply

    Come as you are or nah?

  342. Joyce Lilly August 19, 2013 at 11:02 pm - Reply


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  345. LM Barnes August 19, 2013 at 11:02 pm - Reply

    His church? I thought the church was the house of The Lord?

    • sharon August 20, 2013 at 12:18 am - Reply

      say that…

  346. MoNique Nicole Barnes August 19, 2013 at 11:02 pm - Reply

    What religion is that???

  347. Torinia Janelle Lawson August 19, 2013 at 11:01 pm - Reply

    Clear the church out that´s everybody !

  348. LaKenya Pack Rowe August 19, 2013 at 11:01 pm - Reply

    Well I´ll take my weave and tithes with me.

  349. Trice Taylor August 19, 2013 at 11:00 pm - Reply

    Sit down Eddie, have several seats.

  350. Shelby McClain August 19, 2013 at 11:00 pm - Reply
  351. Smugg Dunkin August 19, 2013 at 11:00 pm - Reply

    Lol.the weavehead ass women bout to riot the church.

  352. NaTasha F. Thomas August 19, 2013 at 11:00 pm - Reply

    I bet he don´t have a problem taking money from all the women who wear weaves! Thats why I attend Bedside Baptist Church; because of hypocrites like him!

  353. Ebony K Williams August 19, 2013 at 10:59 pm - Reply

    He just pretty much cut his income lol

  354. Michelina Deterville August 19, 2013 at 10:59 pm - Reply

    Wow…in Jesus´ name he slays.

  355. Sharon Padmore August 19, 2013 at 10:59 pm - Reply

    Wait until the collection plates go empty…..

  356. Eric Barreto Wells August 19, 2013 at 10:58 pm - Reply

    Amen to that, Ms Rita Smith. I was thinking the same thing. The whole church will be hearing crickets.

  357. Tracey Simpson August 19, 2013 at 10:58 pm - Reply

    Lol What a controlling man! Maybe he should stick to preaching the word.

  358. David Corbitt August 19, 2013 at 10:58 pm - Reply

    LaMont Wheat We would get kicked out.

  359. Hillary LadyAp Banks August 19, 2013 at 10:58 pm - Reply

    Lmao he must gone check everybody head at the door

  360. LM Barnes August 19, 2013 at 10:58 pm - Reply

    I guess half of his congregation will be gone. They wonder why people don´t attend church anymore.

  361. Antionette Young August 19, 2013 at 10:57 pm - Reply

    His congregation is gone be some small.

  362. Gregg La August 19, 2013 at 10:57 pm - Reply

    LOL, with all the money these women are wasting on that fake hair that looks a mess, good for him!

  363. ReKeta Brown August 19, 2013 at 10:56 pm - Reply

    Who the Fuck is he supposed to be what happened to come as you are

  364. Rita Smith August 19, 2013 at 10:56 pm - Reply

    The whole church end up empty!

  365. Shenique Burke August 19, 2013 at 10:56 pm - Reply

    Where was that chapter?????

  366. Neka James August 19, 2013 at 10:55 pm - Reply


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